If your girlfriend hooked up w/ another girl |
 Jul 11 2010, 11:54 PM
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Would you be mad?
I don't think I would. I was thinking about it, and even though it's technically cheating, I don't think I'd be mad. Had it been w/ another guy, I'd be pretty pissed and shit. I think that the anger from cheating from a lot of people comes from the fact that you were intimate with another male, and that other males to a lot of people are seen as direct competition in a lot of regards. You compare yourself to them and think what do they have that you don't, or you think you're so much better in this or that area, and the fact that they won her for that night pisses you off. If it's with another girl, you're still the only guy she's with and that's okay to most. At least that's what I came up with when thinking about it. |
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Jul 12 2010, 12:07 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
why would it be different if it were with another girl? i think that's such a double standard. i see it as cheating. for example, if i was dating a girl and she made out with a guy, i'd be pissed as hell. or, if i was dating a guy and he made out with another guy, i'd be just as pissed. i don't see why there should be a difference if the person you're dating makes out with a guy or a girl. i'm not being very coherent right now since it's 1 in the morning and all i can think about is how hungry i am.
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Jul 12 2010, 12:30 AM
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 feed me your vices Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 154 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,800 |
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Jul 11 2010, 10:07 PM)  why would it be different if it were with another girl? i think that's such a double standard. i see it as cheating. for example, if i was dating a girl and she made out with a guy, i'd be pissed as hell. or, if i was dating a guy and he made out with another guy, i'd be just as pissed. i don't see why there should be a difference if the person you're dating makes out with a guy or a girl. i'm not being very coherent right now since it's 1 in the morning and all i can think about is how hungry i am. I agree. Dating another person, no matter the gender, would still upset me the same way. I don't know why it would be different if I were a guy. I mean, wouldn't you be upset if she became more intimate/closer with her new girlfriend than she was with you? |
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Jul 12 2010, 02:45 AM
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QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jul 12 2010, 12:30 AM) I agree. Dating another person, no matter the gender, would still upset me the same way. I don't know why it would be different if I were a guy. I mean, wouldn't you be upset if she became more intimate/closer with her new girlfriend than she was with you? long end of the stick etc. |
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serotonin If your girlfriend hooked up w/ another girl Jul 11 2010, 11:54 PM
ButtsexV2 QUOTE(misoshiru @ Jul 12 2010, 12:07 AM) ... Jul 12 2010, 12:21 AM ArjunaCapulong bittersweet lmao Jul 12 2010, 12:16 AM saintsaens would be mad but not too bad
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superstitious QUOTE(serotonin @ Jul 12 2010, 11:13 AM) ... Jul 13 2010, 04:15 PM batman I'd probably be surprised and a little amused ... Jul 12 2010, 11:17 AM brooklyneast05 agree with steven. i wouldn't like it, but i h... Jul 12 2010, 11:19 AM aflyingcumshot other females aren't fighting for the gene poo... Jul 13 2010, 04:10 AM serotonin QUOTE(aflyingcumshot @ Jul 13 2010, 04:10... Jul 13 2010, 08:45 AM Uso I guess if your fine with your significant other b... Jul 13 2010, 04:56 PM doughnut RE: If your girlfriend hooked up w/ another girl Jul 13 2010, 06:28 PM Sandraaa I understand your point Steven.
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