Why must we complain?, gurls n there rules Options

[azz90]

one thing ive noticed about myself and other girls is that we're always complaining and starting drama over nothing which is ridiculous. One thing i noticed in high school was that you are NEVER allowed to date your friends ex's. i could see why this would be a problem but a group of myfrens got into the biggest fight over this when they already had new boyfrineds. it was completly pointless in starting drama...the funny thing is that i was the one friend who got mad for my fren dating my ex n vise versa.

I just wanted to know what RULES as a women do you have or go by?

[tokyo-rose]

girls= drama period. there is no if, ands, or buts because it's in our genes. if you think about it, everyone is drama, because we get into arguments with boys, and vice versa about silly things that we later laugh about it.

Speak for your self. Unless I do have a hidden penis somewhere I don't have said gene.

To say that girls are genetically inclined to be dramatic is silly. As Abbey said, speak for yourself, because I don't like getting involved in drama; I'm one of the least dramatic girls you'll ever meet. I don't like wasting my time on stupid things, one of those things being drama and fights with other girls. Are we all dramatic sometimes? Sure. But are all girls dramatic all the time? Definitely not.

[iRapediCarly]

To say that girls are genetically inclined to be dramatic is silly.

no its not, its pretty much an accepted fact that girls tend to deal with emotional stress more verbally relative to men, unless your reidar, then you hug your stuffed teddy bear and call Joanne when you gets ronery

btw, theres physiological backing to my claim so BOOYAH

[tokyo-rose]

no its not, its pretty much an accepted fact that girls tend to deal with emotional stress more verbally relative to men, unless your reidar, then you hug your stuffed teddy bear and call Joanne when you gets ronery

btw, theres physiological backing to my claim so BOOYAH

I agree that women are more vocal/verbal when dealing with distress, and can also be downright bitchy and manipulative to those around them because they either don't know how to regulate their emotions in a healthier way, or prefer to be melodramatic rather than reasonable. I just don't like it when people assume we're automatically bitches with a million stupid rules solely because we're female, since a lot of us aren't/try not to be stereotypical girls.