What to do, boyfriend Options

[mizzkim]

My boyfriend and I been dating for almost three yrs. He has been acting strange lately. My friends tell me he is controlling and not good for me. I noticed his behavior and I want to help him recognize that.

He was looking through my phone, and saw that I talked to one of my friends he doesn't like. And I told him before I have talked to her. He dismissed me from his house early and the next day kinda avoided my text. So I chat with him on gtalk asking if he was avoiding me again, and that I don't want to waste my time. He said talk to your friend that you can't go without, not me. It's been 3 days since I haven't heard from him. I did call today once, but he didn't answer. Should I just be patience and wait... or give him another call.

[mizzkim]

He's been doing this a lot. He would ignore me, then I would have to talk to him and apologize for something I shouldn't feel guilty about. Then everything will be normal. Then it will happen again. It's just this time he's not answering my phone calls. I see him online.., and I see he is focus on his music.

He wasn't like this before.. that much. I really love him, I just hate what he does to me. It's not fair for me to not talk to my friend because he doesn't like her. I don't want to hide that I am talking to her or deleting my text. It's not right..