What to do, boyfriend Options

[mizzkim]

My boyfriend and I been dating for almost three yrs. He has been acting strange lately. My friends tell me he is controlling and not good for me. I noticed his behavior and I want to help him recognize that.

He was looking through my phone, and saw that I talked to one of my friends he doesn't like. And I told him before I have talked to her. He dismissed me from his house early and the next day kinda avoided my text. So I chat with him on gtalk asking if he was avoiding me again, and that I don't want to waste my time. He said talk to your friend that you can't go without, not me. It's been 3 days since I haven't heard from him. I did call today once, but he didn't answer. Should I just be patience and wait... or give him another call.

[brooklyneast05]

if this is the first time it's ever happened, then give him some more time and try to contact him and work it out. three years deserves some extra slack and understanding for mistakes. it's impossible to be together years without some trouble somewhere.

if this isn't out of the ordinary for him to do, then ditch him because jealous/controlling people are jealous controlling people and rarely ever change. i think being controlling is part of some people's personality, and as much as they may not want to be that way, they always resort back to trying to control who they are with.

[tokyo-rose]

if this is the first time it's ever happened, then give him some more time and try to contact him and work it out. three years deserves some extra slack and understanding for mistakes. it's impossible to be together years without some trouble somewhere.

if this isn't out of the ordinary for him to do, then ditch him because jealous/controlling people are jealous controlling people and rarely ever change. i think being controlling is part of some people's personality, and as much as they may not want to be that way, they always resort back to trying to control who they are with.

Ditto; JC always knows what he's talking about.