comparing penis sizes, with one another? Options

[creole]

have any of you guys compared your penis with one of your buddies? out of curiosity? and if you did, how did you approach them?

[tokyo-rose]

no different than guys...

Yeah, but breast size is more obvious since you can't conceal breasts unless you wear baggy clothing. For guys, they can lie about their size for a while, since their privates are concealed beneath pants.

[brooklyneast05]

Yeah, but breast size is more obvious since you can't conceal breasts unless you wear baggy clothing. For guys, they can lie about their size for a while, since their privates are concealed beneath pants.

it's still just as pointless (if not more). breast size doesn't scientifically matter, but you guys still care about it. it's just a matter of women wanting to be condescending because a guy cares about something physical, meanwhile you guys are the queens of caring about pointless things.

[tokyo-rose]

it's still just as pointless (if not more). breast size doesn't scientifically matter, but you guys still care about it. it's just a matter of women wanting to be condescending because a guy cares about something physical, meanwhile you guys are the queens of caring about pointless things.

I never said it wasn't pointless. I didn't reply to your post about girls who care about meaningless physical attributes, but I agree with a lot of what you said. I care about my size to an extent, but overall I'm happy with my appearance, which is all the matters. I also don't look down upon guys who care about their size; I said I don't understand why it matters so much because of the reason that I gave in my previous posts, partly because I'm not a guy. I can relate to girls caring about all that stuff since I am a girl, although personally, I don't wear makeup, count calories, or go all out to make myself look like a princess 24/7. I do enough to make myself look presentable since I know I'm already pretty enough with the "au naturel" appearance. But I know you were generalizing, since it's true that many females worry themselves over all of that.

[brooklyneast05]

I never said it wasn't pointless. I didn't reply to your post about girls who care about meaningless physical attributes, but I agree with a lot of what you said. I care about my size to an extent, but overall I'm happy with my appearance, which is all the matters. I also don't look down upon guys who care about their size; I said I don't understand why it matters so much because of the reason that I gave in my previous posts, partly because I'm not a guy. I can relate to girls caring about all that stuff since I am a girl, although personally, I don't wear makeup, count calories, or go all out to make myself look like a princess 24/7. I do enough to make myself look presentable since I know I'm already pretty enough with the "au naturel" appearance. But I know you were generalizing, since it's true that many females worry themselves over all of that.

yeah i just meant that i think you (girls in general) should be able understand what it's like to be under pressure to conform to a set ideal since girls are pressured to fit to so many. even if a stranger isn't going to automatically know, it still matters to a guys own self confidence. nobody really wants to feel like they aren't going to measure up to what a girl wants/expects.(even though i think this is a fear that most guys grow out of when they get older/in a "real" relationship.)

[tokyo-rose]

yeah i just meant that i think you (girls in general) should be able understand what it's like to be under pressure to conform to a set ideal since girls are pressured to fit to so many. even if a stranger isn't going to automatically know, it still matters to a guys own self confidence. nobody really wants to feel like they aren't going to measure up to what a girl wants/expects.(even though i think this is a fear that most guys grow out of when they get older/in a "real" relationship.)

That's true. I know some guys who didn't care about their size as much once their girlfriends established that if they were fine with it, the guys should be too. I don't care about girls' breast size or guys' penis size, but I know I'm the odd one out in those regards.