oh i don't understand boys. Options

[artisticmelodies]

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[libertie]

First of all, I don't know you, but I'm gonna go out on a limb and say I don't think there's anything wrong with you. My first boyfriend was when I was 15 - it's because I was such a quiet person, I never really talked to many people other than my friends. Since I wasn't EXTREMELY social, I didn't end up talking to guys very much. And believe it or not, if you aren't often in places where they are, they typically won't just go out of their way to approach you. I joined band when I was in 7th grade, and that instantly gave me a group of people I didn't know who had something in common with me. Maybe you should try something like that? Not band necessarily unless that's your thing, but maybe some kind of group.

Anyway, if you're kind of the quiet type like me, it's natural that you won't just get offers from guys all the time. More outgoing girls tend to give guys the impression that it's okay to hit on them. If you're more closed off, some guys might see that as a "do not disturb" sign. So you could either try to become more outgoing, which I don't recommend because the idea of ME doing that makes me extremely uncomfortable.. or you can be patient, which was my method. Eventually these situations will just happen. And it's so much nicer when it's not forced. Another alternative is perhaps you making the first move? Who knows? haha

P.S. I'm pretty sure you aren't "unliked" by guys. Just sayin'. =]