College+Long term relationship, I could use advice |
College+Long term relationship, I could use advice |
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So college is right around the corner for me-ish (Aug 20th)
And some of you know that I do have a boyfriend, and he will also be attending College this year but he is going to a different college. So here is my dilema, and a little bit of a backroung of me and Daniel I've known him for 8 years, and we have been best friends for 8 years, we started dating summer of senior year and we literally surprisingly complete eachother (been dating 7 months) And we both really think we will be together for a long time, like come on a kid that will play with nerf guns with me is super awesome! So back to the college situation We're neighbours currently and like 30 seconds away from eachother but now wereliterally going to be on the opposite sides of Michigan from eachother basically 5-8 hours away from eachother He also Might be going to a private college which means all his breaks are different from mine So even seeing eachother will be a lot trickier if he goes to a private college So overall, especially this being college, what is the best way to keep a long distance relationship since I'm obviously going to be new with this? Cause I really want to sty with him Advice? Sorry if this is very lengthy |
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Yeah, definitely. Know where you each stand on the status of your relationship, establish the slack rules that JC mentioned, and just try your hardest to stay together. Okie dokie cause I wasn't sure talking to him about it straight in was the way to go, but ill definetly do et, cause we're both committed together, and we both know this will be the toughest thing yet, I'm thinking talking to eachother will have us more prepared awh =( ![]() Commitment and honesty is the key. If you guys really love each other, then you're willing to risk and move on. Sounds hard, but it'll work out if you guys put every effort into it. Don't forget to tell him you value every second with him, since now it's harder to see each other. Thankies ![]() Yes, And I definetly trust him and he trusts me, sice were both shy too :'p Ahh I know we are definelty going to be together a lot this summer And if he goes to the private college Ill be leaving August 20th while he would be leaving on September 16th!! I think it'll work out cause we rarely ever fight, like i think we got into one serious-ish fight 1 times only |
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