Staying Friends After a Long Relationship & Bad Break Up ???, Opinions on Staying Friends? Options

[deteam]

How do you guys feel about staying friends after a long term relationship, that had a really bad break up ?

Should you still try to be friends....

Should you both just move on ?

Ill give examples of what happened in my situation a little later

Here's the Actual Situation:
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7 Year On/Off Relationship [Started at Age 12]
Grew Up Together
Was Each Others Best Friend/ Boyfriend/Girlfriend
Talked Marriage
Stuck With Each Other Through VERY Difficult Times

Break Up:
Caught Emotional Cheating for 3 months.
Wasn't Willing to Leave the Other Kid completely to work On Our Relationship
Wasn't Willing to Leave the Other Kid completely to work On Us Being Friends

Status Now:
Haven't Talked for 2 Months [prior to Christmas phone call]
She calls, I Ignore
She Wished Merry Christmas, and Called and that is the last we have talked.

Now She Sounds Like she really wants to talk/ be friendly again but what do you think?

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Subliminal

[*instantmusic*]

You have to be a friend of mine in disguise or something. Every time you share one of your situations, my friend just so happens to be going through the same at the exact same time. I'm watching you son.

I'd say wait a super while till you even think about being friends. If she was the one who cheated on you and/or if it ended because of a friend, use what I call deathnigga tactics. Disappear ninja style. Privacy settings on National Securty mode. Don't give her the benefit of knowing you exist. Become a myth. Poof, be gone.

[deteam]

You have to be a friend of mine in disguise or something. Every time you share one of your situations, my friend just so happens to be going through the same at the exact same time. I'm watching you son.

I'd say wait a super while till you even think about being friends. If she was the one who cheated on you and/or if it ended because of a friend, use what I call deathnigga tactics. Disappear ninja style. Privacy settings on National Securty mode. Don't give her the benefit of knowing you exist. Become a myth. Poof, be gone.

I tried that lol then she got mad sneaky and started hittin up my friends/ having "mutual friends" between us call that way they can let her know how i am ....

and @ uso:

i DEFF didn't recover faster lol i was just hoping that maybe if we became friends it would progress back into a relationship.... she was the one who said "no, if thats all your looking for then don't talk to me" yet here we are with her calling and trying to be friends again wtf


lol

to add to this Situation . . . This Album was made for her:
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=244531

and i don't think shes heard it yet lol



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Subliminal