Staying Friends After a Long Relationship & Bad Break Up ???, Opinions on Staying Friends? |
 Dec 27 2009, 12:09 PM
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How do you guys feel about staying friends after a long term relationship, that had a really bad break up ?
Should you still try to be friends.... Should you both just move on ? Ill give examples of what happened in my situation a little later Here's the Actual Situation: ================================================ 7 Year On/Off Relationship [Started at Age 12] Grew Up Together Was Each Others Best Friend/ Boyfriend/Girlfriend Talked Marriage Stuck With Each Other Through VERY Difficult Times Break Up: Caught Emotional Cheating for 3 months. Wasn't Willing to Leave the Other Kid completely to work On Our Relationship Wasn't Willing to Leave the Other Kid completely to work On Us Being Friends Status Now: Haven't Talked for 2 Months [prior to Christmas phone call] She calls, I Ignore She Wished Merry Christmas, and Called and that is the last we have talked. Now She Sounds Like she really wants to talk/ be friendly again but what do you think? Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 27 2009, 02:55 PM
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If you want to forget her, dont be friends If you miss talking to her and all that, be friends Just see how it goes and howyou feel about it, just know this is suppose to make you feel better, not feel like your obligated to be friends (if this makes any since) If you want a personal opinion Me and my boyfriend have been best friends for 7 years (10 years) and we started dating thissummer, and god forbit but if we do ever break up, i would love to stay his friend, but at the same time i would prolly feel the awkwardness and know my friendship with him prolly wont be the same |
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Dec 27 2009, 06:20 PM
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QUOTE(Uso @ Dec 27 2009, 02:55 PM)  If you want a personal opinion Me and my boyfriend have been best friends for 7 years (10 years) and we started dating thissummer, and god forbit but if we do ever break up, i would love to stay his friend, but at the same time i would prolly feel the awkwardness and know my friendship with him prolly wont be the same exactly ive become so accustomed to the relationship that i don't think i can see her as just a friend... but also don't want to completely cut out someone that important to me what you think? ignore her for now till things are settled then call her one day and see whats good? or because she called for xmas use this as an opportunity to restart a friendship? Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 28 2009, 11:11 AM
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QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 27 2009, 06:20 PM) exactly ive become so accustomed to the relationship that i don't think i can see her as just a friend... but also don't want to completely cut out someone that important to me what you think? ignore her for now till things are settled then call her one day and see whats good? or because she called for xmas use this as an opportunity to restart a friendship? Stay Up -1- Subliminal What eww says, go with the flow And just know the fact that your friendship may not be the same anymore, Everyone's reactions are different, and it really depends on how you or your ex acts out on it.(as to where your friendship goes) |
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Dec 28 2009, 01:51 PM
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QUOTE(Uso @ Dec 28 2009, 11:11 AM) What eww says, go with the flow And just know the fact that your friendship may not be the same anymore, Everyone's reactions are different, and it really depends on how you or your ex acts out on it.(as to where your friendship goes) ya all of a sudden shes actin out towards it being all buddy buddy like nothing happened . . . meanwhile when i tried to be buddy buddy when shit first happened she ignored me and brushed it off  should she get the same treatment? Why should there be an exception now that shes on the other side? Let me know Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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deteam Staying Friends After a Long Relationship & Bad Break Up ??? Dec 27 2009, 12:09 PM
brooklyneast05 i don't think you should bother with the being... Dec 27 2009, 12:23 PM
brooklyneast05 QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Dec 27 2009, 11:23... Dec 27 2009, 06:31 PM Beenly Being friends won't hurt you. As long as both... Dec 27 2009, 12:41 PM deteam QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 27 2009, 12:41 PM) Bei... Dec 27 2009, 12:45 PM Beenly By the way, I mean to "love" someone as ... Dec 27 2009, 12:47 PM deteam QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 27 2009, 12:47 PM) By ... Dec 27 2009, 12:50 PM IWontRapeYou f*ck being friends. Light her house on fire. Dec 27 2009, 01:57 PM Uso QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 28 2009, 01:51 PM) ya ... Dec 28 2009, 04:25 PM serotonin QUOTE(Jesus Christ)basically i think if it was a g... Dec 27 2009, 06:50 PM Eww i think you should just go with the flow.
yall see... Dec 27 2009, 09:19 PM deteam QUOTE(Eww @ Dec 27 2009, 09:19 PM) i thin... Dec 28 2009, 02:44 AM |
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