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Staying Friends After a Long Relationship & Bad Break Up ???, Opinions on Staying Friends?
deteam
post Dec 27 2009, 12:09 PM
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How do you guys feel about staying friends after a long term relationship, that had a really bad break up ?

Should you still try to be friends....

Should you both just move on ?

Ill give examples of what happened in my situation a little later

Here's the Actual Situation:
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7 Year On/Off Relationship [Started at Age 12]
Grew Up Together
Was Each Others Best Friend/ Boyfriend/Girlfriend
Talked Marriage
Stuck With Each Other Through VERY Difficult Times

Break Up:
Caught Emotional Cheating for 3 months.
Wasn't Willing to Leave the Other Kid completely to work On Our Relationship
Wasn't Willing to Leave the Other Kid completely to work On Us Being Friends

Status Now:
Haven't Talked for 2 Months [prior to Christmas phone call]
She calls, I Ignore
She Wished Merry Christmas, and Called and that is the last we have talked.

Now She Sounds Like she really wants to talk/ be friendly again but what do you think?

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post Dec 27 2009, 12:47 PM
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By the way, I mean to "love" someone as a friend, for the ending part. haha
 
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post Dec 27 2009, 12:50 PM
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QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 27 2009, 12:47 PM) *
By the way, I mean to "love" someone as a friend, for the ending part. haha


haha yaa that could be an issue cause im sure she "loves" me as a friend . . but idk if i could ever look at her as "just a friend" so idk _dry.gif


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