Staying Friends After a Long Relationship & Bad Break Up ???, Opinions on Staying Friends? |
 Dec 27 2009, 12:09 PM
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How do you guys feel about staying friends after a long term relationship, that had a really bad break up ?
Should you still try to be friends.... Should you both just move on ? Ill give examples of what happened in my situation a little later Here's the Actual Situation: ================================================ 7 Year On/Off Relationship [Started at Age 12] Grew Up Together Was Each Others Best Friend/ Boyfriend/Girlfriend Talked Marriage Stuck With Each Other Through VERY Difficult Times Break Up: Caught Emotional Cheating for 3 months. Wasn't Willing to Leave the Other Kid completely to work On Our Relationship Wasn't Willing to Leave the Other Kid completely to work On Us Being Friends Status Now: Haven't Talked for 2 Months [prior to Christmas phone call] She calls, I Ignore She Wished Merry Christmas, and Called and that is the last we have talked. Now She Sounds Like she really wants to talk/ be friendly again but what do you think? Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 27 2009, 12:41 PM
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Being friends won't hurt you. As long as both of you don't have that type of "feeling" for each other. I know it's kind of hard to forget and forgive, but it's worth it. You can't just hate or ignore someone for the rest of your life--especially if they were a big portion of your "love" life. It doesn't hurt to love someone, but it hurts to hate someone.
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deteam Staying Friends After a Long Relationship & Bad Break Up ??? Dec 27 2009, 12:09 PM
brooklyneast05 i don't think you should bother with the being... Dec 27 2009, 12:23 PM
brooklyneast05 QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Dec 27 2009, 11:23... Dec 27 2009, 06:31 PM deteam QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 27 2009, 12:41 PM) Bei... Dec 27 2009, 12:45 PM Beenly By the way, I mean to "love" someone as ... Dec 27 2009, 12:47 PM deteam QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 27 2009, 12:47 PM) By ... Dec 27 2009, 12:50 PM IWontRapeYou f*ck being friends. Light her house on fire. Dec 27 2009, 01:57 PM Uso Simple
If you want to forget her, dont be friends... Dec 27 2009, 02:55 PM deteam QUOTE(Uso @ Dec 27 2009, 02:55 PM) If you... Dec 27 2009, 06:20 PM Uso QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 27 2009, 06:20 PM) exa... Dec 28 2009, 11:11 AM deteam QUOTE(Uso @ Dec 28 2009, 11:11 AM) What e... Dec 28 2009, 01:51 PM Uso QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 28 2009, 01:51 PM) ya ... Dec 28 2009, 04:25 PM serotonin QUOTE(Jesus Christ)basically i think if it was a g... Dec 27 2009, 06:50 PM Eww i think you should just go with the flow.
yall see... Dec 27 2009, 09:19 PM deteam QUOTE(Eww @ Dec 27 2009, 09:19 PM) i thin... Dec 28 2009, 02:44 AM |
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