Bf/Gf, Having a B/f or G/F before marrage. Options

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I want someone who is really Christian to help me out with this question, not someone who has been influence be culture or society. What does is say in the Bible?
I've seen a lot of topics on the web that claim to answer this question but they all keep saying what it could lead too or there are some very stupid answer.

Is having a boyfriend of girlfriend permitted in Christianity?

NOTE: I am not Christian or religious.

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Yes, but check out the disclaimer:

Modern day relationships don't fall into Christian God's guidelines. A Christian's concern is to please and worship God, and God's word is the Bible right? According to the word (please don't ask me what versus), you can't skeet skeet, you can't lust, and you can't have sex before marriage. Those three little rules alone just about hinders everything you typically end up doing in a modern relationship. You're left with holding hands and pecks on the cheeks. That's your 'ideal' Christian relationship before marriage. It's not the 'common' Christian relationship, for we are all sinners, but it is the 'ideal'.

Alright, no bs, I'ma give it to you straight. If she's in a hardcore Christian family and she loves her parents, you ain't gettin' any man. I'm sorry. Forgive me for assuming. I'm just throwing it out there. Just saying. Don't kill the messenger.

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Thank you for the answer
PS: with the "definition" you gave from the Bible most of us teenagers today won't consider it a relationship.

Alright, no bs, I'ma give it to you straight. If she's in a hardcore Christian family and she loves her parents, you ain't gettin' any man. I'm sorry. Forgive me for assuming. I'm just throwing it out there. Just saying. Don't kill the messenger.

By the way she's just on of my friend and I just wanted to no where Christianity stands an this topic.