Problems with my girlfriend ! HELP |
 Dec 11 2009, 07:49 AM
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Okay here is the background to my relationship. Me and my GF have been going out for the past eight months. we started talking as friends and then one thing led to another and we got into a relationship! well here is the thing i never asked her out! don't get me wrong i wanted to ask her out but after we had slept together she assumed we were going out ! and the way i found out we were going out was the fact that later after we had slept together, i told her hey i wanna take this to the next level and she said wut do u mean i said u know actually going out and she fliped! lol saying oh we r! " i don't sleep With people i don't go out with. Anyways from the get go i was close with her and pretty much told her everything i was stright forward but she never got close to me. meaning she never asked for my help or never said any kind of stories about herslef. she kind of had a wall up. oh let me add this we live 80 miles away from each other.she didn't introduce me to her group of friends until like 3 months ago and she even told that me that usually she doesn't get her bfs involved with her friends. and i was one of the few that got involved
anyways here are my problems i feel like she is not into me. the reason being she is never there for me if i have a problem like she doesn't show interest in talking to me or trying to help me with anything. it's bothering me the fact that i can't get too close to her like i'm not use to not getting attention from my gf's and my relationship is kinda seriouse or at least she makes me feel that way. by seriouse i mean we have been talking about marriage. sorry for writing so much! |
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Dec 12 2009, 05:35 PM
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You're starting to seem like the clingy one in this relationship.
If she's not willing to open up, then, as some people said, don't force her into doing anything, or pressure her. Play it cool, find yourself something to keep your mind from lapsing into a helpless one-sided love. Pay VERY close attention to her. There are very subtle things that she will reveal to you as your relationship progresses, but don't ever assume anything too quickly or you might end up scaring her. |
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Dec 12 2009, 10:47 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
QUOTE(Herizon Action @ Dec 12 2009, 06:35 PM)  You're starting to seem like the clingy one in this relationship. If she's not willing to open up, then, as some people said, don't force her into doing anything, or pressure her. Play it cool, find yourself something to keep your mind from lapsing into a helpless one-sided love. Pay VERY close attention to her. There are very subtle things that she will reveal to you as your relationship progresses, but don't ever assume anything too quickly or you might end up scaring her. whut he said bro' |
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