Problems with my girlfriend ! HELP Options

[Alexash1367]

Okay here is the background to my relationship. Me and my GF have been going out for the past eight months. we started talking as friends and then one thing led to another and we got into a relationship! well here is the thing i never asked her out! don't get me wrong i wanted to ask her out but after we had slept together she assumed we were going out ! and the way i found out we were going out was the fact that later after we had slept together, i told her hey i wanna take this to the next level and she said wut do u mean i said u know actually going out and she fliped! lol saying oh we r! " i don't sleep With people i don't go out with. Anyways from the get go i was close with her and pretty much told her everything i was stright forward but she never got close to me. meaning she never asked for my help or never said any kind of stories about herslef. she kind of had a wall up. oh let me add this we live 80 miles away from each other.she didn't introduce me to her group of friends until like 3 months ago and she even told that me that usually she doesn't get her bfs involved with her friends. and i was one of the few that got involved

anyways here are my problems

i feel like she is not into me. the reason being she is never there for me if i have a problem like she doesn't show interest in talking to me or trying to help me with anything.

it's bothering me the fact that i can't get too close to her like i'm not use to not getting attention from my gf's and my relationship is kinda seriouse or at least she makes me feel that way. by seriouse i mean we have been talking about marriage.


sorry for writing so much!

[deteam]

ya marriage is cool an all because i talked to my girl of 7 years about it. . . but she was also my best friend... and we are also not together or even talking right now . . . so if only you are the one being open with her but shes being reserved with you i dont think marriage is the issue right now..

Ask her whats good, explain how you feel about being open and her being there for you and see what happens.. if she is able to do it great if not then you might wanna reconsider . .

*Edit * yay 300 posts ! lol

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