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 Dec 9 2009, 04:48 AM
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Let's say my name is John, and the name of my ex-girlfriend is Jane.
I am currently 22 years old, and Jane is 19 years of age. We dated for about ten months, and broke up about four months ago. The last time I ever saw and spoke to her was the 2nd of September, 2009. She was the first person I gave myself to, and vice versa. We really loved each other, and I still continue to do so to this very day, although she may have moved on. During the time that we were dating, we decided to keep a 'journal.' We would write it in everyday, or try to, about whatever we want and would give it to each other as a gift for our one year (which we never made). I'm pretty sure she stopped writing in it after we broke up, but I still continue to write in my journal. I write about how much I miss her, reminisce on our memories, jot down lyrics and poems about love and heart break, and so on. I want to stop writing in it after the journal fills up to the very last page, and use it as some symbolic meaning of 'closure.' I do need to move on, and stop living everyday based on my past memories. I don't know if I will ever give the journal to Jane or not but if I ever were to... My real question to the ladies: how would you feel if you were Jane and randomly received a journal one day? Would you read it? Would you laugh at it and think of John as some pathetic being? would you be flattered? What would your initial thoughts be? |
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Dec 9 2009, 10:00 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Burn it and move on.
You're lucky that you don't have to see her and deal with her, especially if you still have feelings for her. Being away from her should make it easier to move on and forget her. Don't even finish the stupid journal for your own sake, why would you even want to put yourself through that? |
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Dec 10 2009, 01:11 AM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Dec 9 2009, 10:00 PM)  Burn it and move on. You're lucky that you don't have to see her and deal with her, especially if you still have feelings for her. Being away from her should make it easier to move on and forget her. Don't even finish the stupid journal for your own sake, why would you even want to put yourself through that? your not putting yourself through it . . . most people who are put in that position still have feelings for the other, and want closure... so they finish it for their on sake Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Sriracha Need a female opinion Dec 9 2009, 04:48 AM
Sriracha How would I be putting her in an "awkward pos... Dec 9 2009, 05:13 AM
iDecay QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 9 2009, 02:13 AM) Ho... Dec 9 2009, 05:15 AM Sriracha QUOTE(iDecay @ Dec 9 2009, 05:15 AM) You ... Dec 9 2009, 07:21 AM iDecay QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 9 2009, 04:21 AM) Yo... Dec 9 2009, 09:24 AM Beenly Ok, The journal thing is kinda cute, but seriously... Dec 9 2009, 05:59 AM synkiro QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 9 2009, 12:59 AM) Ok, ... Dec 9 2009, 06:37 AM Sriracha QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 9 2009, 05:59 AM) Ok, ... Dec 9 2009, 07:22 AM Beenly QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 9 2009, 05:22 AM) Ca... Dec 9 2009, 02:34 PM Tomates If i were Jane and if i received the journal i wou... Dec 9 2009, 12:03 PM deteam im a dude who went through something similiar, and... Dec 9 2009, 01:32 PM HeartOfPandora Clearly she's moved on. If I was her and I... Dec 9 2009, 09:44 PM kryogenix Write creepy shit in it. Like, "I watch you w... Dec 9 2009, 09:48 PM Maccabee QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 10 2009, 12:11 AM) you... Dec 10 2009, 01:31 AM deteam QUOTE(Maccabee @ Dec 10 2009, 01:31 AM) C... Dec 10 2009, 11:13 AM Maccabee Don't give it to her. That would just be creep... Dec 9 2009, 10:08 PM Beenly QUOTE(Maccabee @ Dec 9 2009, 11:31 PM) Co... Dec 10 2009, 06:39 PM deteam QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 10 2009, 06:39 PM) i... Dec 10 2009, 09:07 PM Beenly QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 10 2009, 07:07 PM) lol... Dec 10 2009, 09:29 PM IWontRapeYou stay on topic bitch asses. Dec 10 2009, 09:34 PM Beenly Hopefully OP replies back, but unanimously we all ... Dec 10 2009, 09:36 PM HeartOfPandora yeah, what a h00r! Dec 10 2009, 09:43 PM Beenly QUOTE(HeartOfPandora @ Dec 10 2009, 07:43... Dec 10 2009, 09:45 PM HeartOfPandora idk what you're talking about beens, clearly s... Dec 10 2009, 09:56 PM Sriracha QUOTE(HeartOfPandora @ Dec 10 2009, 09:56... Dec 10 2009, 11:13 PM deteam QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 10 2009, 11:13 PM) C... Dec 10 2009, 11:39 PM IWontRapeYou QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 10 2009, 10:13 PM) C... Dec 10 2009, 11:55 PM deteam QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ Dec 10 2009, 11:55 P... Dec 11 2009, 02:10 AM IWontRapeYou QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 11 2009, 01:10 AM) you... Dec 11 2009, 07:16 PM Sriracha QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ Dec 11 2009, 07:16 P... Dec 11 2009, 07:21 PM HeartOfPandora QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 10 2009, 10:13 PM) C... Dec 11 2009, 04:47 PM Sriracha QUOTE(HeartOfPandora @ Dec 11 2009, 04:47... Dec 11 2009, 07:07 PM paozuu I would have mixed emotions, I think every girl wo... Dec 11 2009, 02:16 AM synkiro in a sense, receiving pity is worse than blatant a... Dec 11 2009, 07:42 AM Beenly QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 11 2009, 05:07 PM) I... Dec 11 2009, 09:15 PM Uso She'll get a restraining order on you. Dec 11 2009, 09:17 PM Sriracha QUOTE(Uso @ Dec 11 2009, 09:17 PM) She... Dec 12 2009, 03:53 PM HiFemaleSeanFeng I would read it and as I read it, I'd probably... Dec 24 2009, 09:33 PM Uso imo if you'regoing ot give it to her to try to... Dec 25 2009, 01:00 AM |
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