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 Dec 9 2009, 04:48 AM
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Let's say my name is John, and the name of my ex-girlfriend is Jane.
I am currently 22 years old, and Jane is 19 years of age. We dated for about ten months, and broke up about four months ago. The last time I ever saw and spoke to her was the 2nd of September, 2009. She was the first person I gave myself to, and vice versa. We really loved each other, and I still continue to do so to this very day, although she may have moved on. During the time that we were dating, we decided to keep a 'journal.' We would write it in everyday, or try to, about whatever we want and would give it to each other as a gift for our one year (which we never made). I'm pretty sure she stopped writing in it after we broke up, but I still continue to write in my journal. I write about how much I miss her, reminisce on our memories, jot down lyrics and poems about love and heart break, and so on. I want to stop writing in it after the journal fills up to the very last page, and use it as some symbolic meaning of 'closure.' I do need to move on, and stop living everyday based on my past memories. I don't know if I will ever give the journal to Jane or not but if I ever were to... My real question to the ladies: how would you feel if you were Jane and randomly received a journal one day? Would you read it? Would you laugh at it and think of John as some pathetic being? would you be flattered? What would your initial thoughts be? |
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Dec 9 2009, 01:32 PM
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im a dude who went through something similiar, and the way it was explained to me by people was that if you send her this journal . . . it shows your still thinking about her. If she has moved on she does not want to be brought back into those old memories. I say finish it for your own closure, but keep it to yourself .. because something tells me that by sending this to her you are hoping it sparks something in her head to maybe rekindle things with you . . . if that's true please dont because you will just end up getting hurt again.
Good Luck though Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Sriracha Need a female opinion Dec 9 2009, 04:48 AM
Sriracha How would I be putting her in an "awkward pos... Dec 9 2009, 05:13 AM
iDecay QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 9 2009, 02:13 AM) Ho... Dec 9 2009, 05:15 AM Sriracha QUOTE(iDecay @ Dec 9 2009, 05:15 AM) You ... Dec 9 2009, 07:21 AM iDecay QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 9 2009, 04:21 AM) Yo... Dec 9 2009, 09:24 AM Beenly Ok, The journal thing is kinda cute, but seriously... Dec 9 2009, 05:59 AM synkiro QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 9 2009, 12:59 AM) Ok, ... Dec 9 2009, 06:37 AM Sriracha QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 9 2009, 05:59 AM) Ok, ... Dec 9 2009, 07:22 AM Beenly QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 9 2009, 05:22 AM) Ca... Dec 9 2009, 02:34 PM Tomates If i were Jane and if i received the journal i wou... Dec 9 2009, 12:03 PM HeartOfPandora Clearly she's moved on. If I was her and I... Dec 9 2009, 09:44 PM kryogenix Write creepy shit in it. Like, "I watch you w... Dec 9 2009, 09:48 PM karmakiller Burn it and move on.
You're lucky that you do... Dec 9 2009, 10:00 PM deteam QUOTE(karmakiller @ Dec 9 2009, 10:00 PM)... Dec 10 2009, 01:11 AM Maccabee QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 10 2009, 12:11 AM) you... Dec 10 2009, 01:31 AM deteam QUOTE(Maccabee @ Dec 10 2009, 01:31 AM) C... Dec 10 2009, 11:13 AM Maccabee Don't give it to her. That would just be creep... Dec 9 2009, 10:08 PM Beenly QUOTE(Maccabee @ Dec 9 2009, 11:31 PM) Co... Dec 10 2009, 06:39 PM deteam QUOTE(Beenly @ Dec 10 2009, 06:39 PM) i... Dec 10 2009, 09:07 PM Beenly QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 10 2009, 07:07 PM) lol... Dec 10 2009, 09:29 PM IWontRapeYou stay on topic bitch asses. Dec 10 2009, 09:34 PM Beenly Hopefully OP replies back, but unanimously we all ... Dec 10 2009, 09:36 PM HeartOfPandora yeah, what a h00r! Dec 10 2009, 09:43 PM Beenly QUOTE(HeartOfPandora @ Dec 10 2009, 07:43... Dec 10 2009, 09:45 PM HeartOfPandora idk what you're talking about beens, clearly s... Dec 10 2009, 09:56 PM Sriracha QUOTE(HeartOfPandora @ Dec 10 2009, 09:56... Dec 10 2009, 11:13 PM deteam QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 10 2009, 11:13 PM) C... Dec 10 2009, 11:39 PM IWontRapeYou QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 10 2009, 10:13 PM) C... Dec 10 2009, 11:55 PM deteam QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ Dec 10 2009, 11:55 P... Dec 11 2009, 02:10 AM IWontRapeYou QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 11 2009, 01:10 AM) you... Dec 11 2009, 07:16 PM Sriracha QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ Dec 11 2009, 07:16 P... Dec 11 2009, 07:21 PM HeartOfPandora QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 10 2009, 10:13 PM) C... Dec 11 2009, 04:47 PM Sriracha QUOTE(HeartOfPandora @ Dec 11 2009, 04:47... Dec 11 2009, 07:07 PM paozuu I would have mixed emotions, I think every girl wo... Dec 11 2009, 02:16 AM synkiro in a sense, receiving pity is worse than blatant a... Dec 11 2009, 07:42 AM Beenly QUOTE(Sriracha @ Dec 11 2009, 05:07 PM) I... Dec 11 2009, 09:15 PM Uso She'll get a restraining order on you. Dec 11 2009, 09:17 PM Sriracha QUOTE(Uso @ Dec 11 2009, 09:17 PM) She... Dec 12 2009, 03:53 PM HiFemaleSeanFeng I would read it and as I read it, I'd probably... Dec 24 2009, 09:33 PM Uso imo if you'regoing ot give it to her to try to... Dec 25 2009, 01:00 AM |
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