I hate when my parents fight Options

[emberfly]

My mother has talked to us (kids + husband) about a divorce since I was about 8 or so.

I just can't stand when they fight. It makes me feel so horrible. I can't stand my father 80% of the time, but I would just hate to lose him. I do not want a divorce.





I am writing this because my father was insulting my mother in front of her + us kids while we were trying to do a family project. It ended a few minutes ago. He was belittling her and just being totally awful.

I couldn't stand it.

Is there anything I can do? I do NOT want a divorce.

[berna09]

I agree with Libertie.
People normally think that divorce is the end of life. Couples who can no longer mend the relationship resort to one thing: divorce. Divorce surely affects and brings problems to the family.

Of course, you have the courage to tell your parents to stop fighting, but, I know, you're clueless why those things are happening. You can always mediate, but you don't hold your parent's decisions. It's important to keep yourself strong, and try to understand your parents.