Log In · Register

 
How do you get rid of a stalker?
Fat2death
post Sep 28 2009, 01:04 PM
Post #1


Senior Member
***

Group: Member
Posts: 70
Joined: Sep 2009
Member No: 745,998



I met this guy a week ago, and we have been having loooong conversations over the phone. I just realized I dont like him as more than a friend. After 3 days he claimed he loved me. blink.gif Also he is too playful and childish. I told him that I wasnt into him anymore, and I would just see him around. I noticed that he started to hang out in places where I go, and I have never seen him there EVER until we started to talk. He wont stop calling me. Its 1pm my time, and checking my CID, he's already called 19 times, and left 13 messages. He keeps saying he wont stop calling until I talk to him, but when I did speak to him, he just tried to convince me I was making a mistake. HE still keeps calling!!!!

Ok, so Im thinking my next step is restraining order.
 
 
Start new topic
Replies
Fat2death
post Sep 30 2009, 05:35 PM
Post #2


Senior Member
***

Group: Member
Posts: 70
Joined: Sep 2009
Member No: 745,998



Ok Instant... You got me. I left a few details out. I have to admit. Thing is, I was turned off before the "L" bomb. A day prior actually. I like movies. A few of us friends got together for a game of Monopoly and a movie. When the movie starts he wouldnt let me watch it. He was all in my face. Telling me he didnt have to watch the movie, because it doesnt catch his attention more than looking at me.
I was never into him as more than friends, and I told him this on day one. I have long convos with my gf's too. So I dont think I led him on. Im getting divorced right now! He knows this too. I just knew him for a long time, and he seemed like a nice guy, so I told him I wouldnt mind being his friend.
After a couple days, he, I guess, started to look at me differently. He said he would love to be with me as my boyfriend eventually. I told him its way too early for me, because Im not even legally divorced yet, and I needed the time to be single. You know.
As far as past gf's of his. I found out he has a domestic charge. Apparently he busted out some guy's windows because his gf left him for this other guy. They were in the car together. He chased the car down and all. Like the terminator! Now this was a part of my decision to walk away. Especially since he said he loved me so early, it kind of gave me the extra push, and the whole domestic thing seemed like it could end up being me. I felt like after he said it, he was obsessive, and I said I will be damned if I become apart of his property.
I think thats all I left out. Other than the fact that he is 1 year younger than me, and I heard that someone told him that he needed to date me because I have a lot of money. All these factors is why I walked away, but he wont leav me alone.
Im just trying to understand him and why. It was only a week. Not even that. 6 days!


BTW... I filed for my restraining order today, pink eye and all.lol I think I got it from someone at that wake. (I wasnt letting it stop me.) I was already taking today off, but when I woke up and couldnt open my left eye, I had an excuse.
Hopefully everything goes well once he is served.
 

Posts in this topic
Fat2death   How do you get rid of a stalker?   Sep 28 2009, 01:04 PM
jcp   you taking it to seriously. He'll stop botheri...   Sep 28 2009, 02:04 PM
Tramatize   talk to him, just because he isn't MORE than a...   Sep 28 2009, 02:25 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(Tramatize @ Sep 28 2009, 02:25 PM) ...   Sep 28 2009, 02:40 PM
Tramatize   QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 28 2009, 03:40 PM) ...   Sep 28 2009, 02:47 PM
karmakiller   Make it very clear to him that you're not inte...   Sep 28 2009, 03:43 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(karmakiller @ Sep 28 2009, 03:43 PM...   Sep 28 2009, 04:11 PM
Cristy   QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 28 2009, 05:11 PM) ...   Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(Cristy @ Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM) Cha...   Sep 28 2009, 06:01 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(Cristy @ Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM) Cha...   Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM
karmakiller   QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM) ...   Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(karmakiller @ Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM...   Sep 29 2009, 04:21 PM
transcendentalism   Kill him. He sounds like a child. Restraining ord...   Sep 28 2009, 07:00 PM
transcendentalism   ^ QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 28 2009, 07...   Sep 30 2009, 06:43 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 30 2009, 06...   Sep 30 2009, 07:33 PM
jcp   now your not overeacting.   Sep 29 2009, 03:47 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(jcp @ Sep 29 2009, 03:47 PM) now yo...   Sep 29 2009, 04:07 PM
IWontRapeYou   idk Most stalker scenarios end in a suicide/homici...   Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM
paozuu   the more you reject, the more he wants to try. jus...   Sep 29 2009, 04:35 PM
colddesert   Ya, I had this guy who would call me, text me, sho...   Sep 29 2009, 11:24 PM
DoubleJ   YOU have a stalker?!   Sep 30 2009, 01:16 AM
fire   WHAT IF YOURE WRONG AND HE COMPLETES YOU?!???...   Sep 30 2009, 02:42 AM
colddesert   QUOTE(fire @ Sep 30 2009, 01:42 AM) WHAT ...   Sep 30 2009, 01:59 PM
Fat2death   These long conversations werent abut us. They were...   Sep 30 2009, 12:34 PM
Fat2death   Ok Instant... You got me. I left a few details out...   Sep 30 2009, 05:35 PM
IWontRapeYou   kill him   Sep 30 2009, 05:39 PM
IWontRapeYou   LOLOL great minds think a like eh?   Sep 30 2009, 07:10 PM
transcendentalism   RE: How do you get rid of a stalker?   Sep 30 2009, 07:11 PM


Reply to this topicStart new topic
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: