How do you get rid of a stalker? Options

[Fat2death]

I met this guy a week ago, and we have been having loooong conversations over the phone. I just realized I dont like him as more than a friend. After 3 days he claimed he loved me. Also he is too playful and childish. I told him that I wasnt into him anymore, and I would just see him around. I noticed that he started to hang out in places where I go, and I have never seen him there EVER until we started to talk. He wont stop calling me. Its 1pm my time, and checking my CID, he's already called 19 times, and left 13 messages. He keeps saying he wont stop calling until I talk to him, but when I did speak to him, he just tried to convince me I was making a mistake. HE still keeps calling!!!!

Ok, so Im thinking my next step is restraining order.

[Fat2death]

These long conversations werent abut us. They were platonic. We talked while I was at work and things like that. I would be in the office bored and text him like, Im bored. We would also talk about past experiences. Funny things, or things that happened recently in our circle of friends. A lot. Im not apologizing for anything. I havent done anything wrong. I may have played a little part in it by giving him my number. He is a nice looking guy, but I dont give my number to any guy thinking to get married.
What your pov is basically telling me, that you ask for what you get. Like if a girl is wearing small clothes, she is asking to be raped type thing. I dont have to apologize to him for having good conversations.
I saw him at a dinner party last night.(a wake for a family member of my bff) He was hanging around outside, and I told him flat out, when he approached me, I didnt want to have anything to do with him. I told him I just dont see us being a couple because we are in different places in our life. He bought up the fact that I blocked him on myspace, and he just wanted to talk to me. I gave him a chance. All he said was he still loved me, and thats when I told him I had to go. HOW THE F*UCK CAN HE LOVE ME?! I think he was after my money actually. Honestly, and I think he feels he still has a chance to be with me, so he wont have to work, and he can spend up my sh*t. Thats why he is telling me he loves me. He thinks Im weak and will fall for it.