How do you get rid of a stalker? |
How do you get rid of a stalker? |
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I met this guy a week ago, and we have been having loooong conversations over the phone. I just realized I dont like him as more than a friend. After 3 days he claimed he loved me.
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I already activated the call blocking and call tracing. He just calls from other numbers. I said we can just be friends, and he needed to stop calling and we just speak in public, but he wont stop calling, and Im not interested in any interaction with him whatsoever. Change your phone number? :/ I think you should cut off all contact with him for a while, otherwise he'll never get that you're not interested and keep trying to reach you. Also, don't say that you can just be friends when you don't want to interact with him at all. Saying the opposite of what you mean isn't going to help things. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Sep 2009 Member No: 745,998 ![]() |
Change your phone number? :/ I think you should cut off all contact with him for a while, otherwise he'll never get that you're not interested and keep trying to reach you. Also, don't say that you can just be friends when you don't want to interact with him at all. Saying the opposite of what you mean isn't going to help things. I took yours and everyone elses advice to ignore him. Now he is stalking my Myspace, and he stole some of my pics today. He put them on his page and is basically pretending that we are in love. When I checked my Myspace, I had like 6 messages. The last one told me he took my pictures. He even gave me a pet name on his page like we are a couple!!!! I made that album private (it was the only one public), and Im blocking him from emailing me. He still calls though. Not as much, because now he just stalks me through Myspace with messages. Saying he loves me, and he isnt going anywhere. I think its time for the papers. Im not overeacting JCP. This bastard is crazy as hell! |
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 ![]() |
Not as much, because now he just stalks me through Myspace with messages. Saying he loves me, and he isnt going anywhere. I think its time for the papers. Im not overeacting JCP. This bastard is crazy as hell! That would worry me. It sounds like he wants you to just accept it and that if you won't he'll do what he can to make you accept it. You might have to change your number and get a restraining order especially if he knows where you live, because if he's doing crazy shit like this and you close every other line of communication he might try hanging around your place. He's way beyond "creeper" status. Print off whatever he sends you, just in case. |
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