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How do you get rid of a stalker?
Fat2death
post Sep 28 2009, 01:04 PM
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I met this guy a week ago, and we have been having loooong conversations over the phone. I just realized I dont like him as more than a friend. After 3 days he claimed he loved me. blink.gif Also he is too playful and childish. I told him that I wasnt into him anymore, and I would just see him around. I noticed that he started to hang out in places where I go, and I have never seen him there EVER until we started to talk. He wont stop calling me. Its 1pm my time, and checking my CID, he's already called 19 times, and left 13 messages. He keeps saying he wont stop calling until I talk to him, but when I did speak to him, he just tried to convince me I was making a mistake. HE still keeps calling!!!!

Ok, so Im thinking my next step is restraining order.
 
 
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post Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM
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QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 28 2009, 05:11 PM) *
I already activated the call blocking and call tracing. He just calls from other numbers. I said we can just be friends, and he needed to stop calling and we just speak in public, but he wont stop calling, and Im not interested in any interaction with him whatsoever.

Change your phone number? :/

I think you should cut off all contact with him for a while, otherwise he'll never get that you're not interested and keep trying to reach you. Also, don't say that you can just be friends when you don't want to interact with him at all. Saying the opposite of what you mean isn't going to help things.
 
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post Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM
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QUOTE(Cristy @ Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM) *
Change your phone number? :/

I think you should cut off all contact with him for a while, otherwise he'll never get that you're not interested and keep trying to reach you. Also, don't say that you can just be friends when you don't want to interact with him at all. Saying the opposite of what you mean isn't going to help things.



I took yours and everyone elses advice to ignore him. Now he is stalking my Myspace, and he stole some of my pics today. He put them on his page and is basically pretending that we are in love. When I checked my Myspace, I had like 6 messages. The last one told me he took my pictures. He even gave me a pet name on his page like we are a couple!!!! I made that album private (it was the only one public), and Im blocking him from emailing me. He still calls though. Not as much, because now he just stalks me through Myspace with messages. Saying he loves me, and he isnt going anywhere. I think its time for the papers.
Im not overeacting JCP. This bastard is crazy as hell!
 
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post Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM
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QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM) *
Not as much, because now he just stalks me through Myspace with messages. Saying he loves me, and he isnt going anywhere. I think its time for the papers.
Im not overeacting JCP. This bastard is crazy as hell!

That would worry me. It sounds like he wants you to just accept it and that if you won't he'll do what he can to make you accept it. You might have to change your number and get a restraining order especially if he knows where you live, because if he's doing crazy shit like this and you close every other line of communication he might try hanging around your place. He's way beyond "creeper" status. Print off whatever he sends you, just in case.
 

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Fat2death   How do you get rid of a stalker?   Sep 28 2009, 01:04 PM
jcp   you taking it to seriously. He'll stop botheri...   Sep 28 2009, 02:04 PM
Tramatize   talk to him, just because he isn't MORE than a...   Sep 28 2009, 02:25 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(Tramatize @ Sep 28 2009, 02:25 PM) ...   Sep 28 2009, 02:40 PM
Tramatize   QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 28 2009, 03:40 PM) ...   Sep 28 2009, 02:47 PM
karmakiller   Make it very clear to him that you're not inte...   Sep 28 2009, 03:43 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(karmakiller @ Sep 28 2009, 03:43 PM...   Sep 28 2009, 04:11 PM
Cristy   QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 28 2009, 05:11 PM) ...   Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(Cristy @ Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM) Cha...   Sep 28 2009, 06:01 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(Cristy @ Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM) Cha...   Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM
karmakiller   QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM) ...   Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(karmakiller @ Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM...   Sep 29 2009, 04:21 PM
transcendentalism   Kill him. He sounds like a child. Restraining ord...   Sep 28 2009, 07:00 PM
transcendentalism   ^ QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 28 2009, 07...   Sep 30 2009, 06:43 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 30 2009, 06...   Sep 30 2009, 07:33 PM
jcp   now your not overeacting.   Sep 29 2009, 03:47 PM
Fat2death   QUOTE(jcp @ Sep 29 2009, 03:47 PM) now yo...   Sep 29 2009, 04:07 PM
IWontRapeYou   idk Most stalker scenarios end in a suicide/homici...   Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM
paozuu   the more you reject, the more he wants to try. jus...   Sep 29 2009, 04:35 PM
colddesert   Ya, I had this guy who would call me, text me, sho...   Sep 29 2009, 11:24 PM
DoubleJ   YOU have a stalker?!   Sep 30 2009, 01:16 AM
fire   WHAT IF YOURE WRONG AND HE COMPLETES YOU?!???...   Sep 30 2009, 02:42 AM
colddesert   QUOTE(fire @ Sep 30 2009, 01:42 AM) WHAT ...   Sep 30 2009, 01:59 PM
Fat2death   These long conversations werent abut us. They were...   Sep 30 2009, 12:34 PM
Fat2death   Ok Instant... You got me. I left a few details out...   Sep 30 2009, 05:35 PM
IWontRapeYou   kill him   Sep 30 2009, 05:39 PM
IWontRapeYou   LOLOL great minds think a like eh?   Sep 30 2009, 07:10 PM
transcendentalism   RE: How do you get rid of a stalker?   Sep 30 2009, 07:11 PM


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