How do you get rid of a stalker? |
How do you get rid of a stalker? |
Sep 28 2009, 01:04 PM
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I met this guy a week ago, and we have been having loooong conversations over the phone. I just realized I dont like him as more than a friend. After 3 days he claimed he loved me.
Ok, so Im thinking my next step is restraining order. |
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Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM
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I already activated the call blocking and call tracing. He just calls from other numbers. I said we can just be friends, and he needed to stop calling and we just speak in public, but he wont stop calling, and Im not interested in any interaction with him whatsoever. Change your phone number? :/ I think you should cut off all contact with him for a while, otherwise he'll never get that you're not interested and keep trying to reach you. Also, don't say that you can just be friends when you don't want to interact with him at all. Saying the opposite of what you mean isn't going to help things. |
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Sep 28 2009, 06:01 PM
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Change your phone number? :/ I think you should cut off all contact with him for a while, otherwise he'll never get that you're not interested and keep trying to reach you. Also, don't say that you can just be friends when you don't want to interact with him at all. Saying the opposite of what you mean isn't going to help things. Changing my number will be a hassle. A lot of people have my number. I sell houses. Its all over my website and cards as an emergency contact. Anyhow, I will just have to get used to the phone ringing. Im screening calls now through my answering machine. |
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Fat2death How do you get rid of a stalker? Sep 28 2009, 01:04 PM
jcp you taking it to seriously. He'll stop botheri... Sep 28 2009, 02:04 PM
Tramatize talk to him, just because he isn't MORE than a... Sep 28 2009, 02:25 PM
Fat2death QUOTE(Tramatize @ Sep 28 2009, 02:25 PM) ... Sep 28 2009, 02:40 PM
Tramatize QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 28 2009, 03:40 PM) ... Sep 28 2009, 02:47 PM
karmakiller Make it very clear to him that you're not inte... Sep 28 2009, 03:43 PM
Fat2death QUOTE(karmakiller @ Sep 28 2009, 03:43 PM... Sep 28 2009, 04:11 PM
Fat2death QUOTE(Cristy @ Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM) Cha... Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM
karmakiller QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM) ... Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM
Fat2death QUOTE(karmakiller @ Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM... Sep 29 2009, 04:21 PM
transcendentalism Kill him.
He sounds like a child. Restraining ord... Sep 28 2009, 07:00 PM
transcendentalism ^
QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 28 2009, 07... Sep 30 2009, 06:43 PM
Fat2death QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 30 2009, 06... Sep 30 2009, 07:33 PM
jcp now your not overeacting. Sep 29 2009, 03:47 PM
Fat2death QUOTE(jcp @ Sep 29 2009, 03:47 PM) now yo... Sep 29 2009, 04:07 PM
IWontRapeYou idk Most stalker scenarios end in a suicide/homici... Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM
paozuu the more you reject, the more he wants to try. jus... Sep 29 2009, 04:35 PM
colddesert Ya, I had this guy who would call me, text me, sho... Sep 29 2009, 11:24 PM
DoubleJ YOU have a stalker?! Sep 30 2009, 01:16 AM
fire WHAT IF YOURE WRONG AND HE COMPLETES YOU?!???... Sep 30 2009, 02:42 AM
colddesert QUOTE(fire @ Sep 30 2009, 01:42 AM) WHAT ... Sep 30 2009, 01:59 PM
Fat2death These long conversations werent abut us. They were... Sep 30 2009, 12:34 PM
Fat2death Ok Instant... You got me. I left a few details out... Sep 30 2009, 05:35 PM
IWontRapeYou kill him Sep 30 2009, 05:39 PM
IWontRapeYou LOLOL great minds think a like eh? Sep 30 2009, 07:10 PM
transcendentalism RE: How do you get rid of a stalker? Sep 30 2009, 07:11 PM![]() ![]() |