How do you get rid of a stalker? Options

[Fat2death]

I met this guy a week ago, and we have been having loooong conversations over the phone. I just realized I dont like him as more than a friend. After 3 days he claimed he loved me. Also he is too playful and childish. I told him that I wasnt into him anymore, and I would just see him around. I noticed that he started to hang out in places where I go, and I have never seen him there EVER until we started to talk. He wont stop calling me. Its 1pm my time, and checking my CID, he's already called 19 times, and left 13 messages. He keeps saying he wont stop calling until I talk to him, but when I did speak to him, he just tried to convince me I was making a mistake. HE still keeps calling!!!!

Ok, so Im thinking my next step is restraining order.

[Fat2death]

Make it very clear to him that you're not interested. You've only known him for a week, so you don't know what he's capable of. I wouldn't tell him in person (god only knows what could happen/how he'll take it), but tell him over the phone. Tell him to leave you alone. If he keeps calling you and showing up at the places you go, try your hardest not to go to those places alone and if he still doesn't get it, then you may need to involve the police.

Crazy thing is we hang in the same circle. His brother dates my best friend's sister. (yes I said it)He used to try to talk to me all the time, I just never payed any attention to him. (I wish I kept it that way) He just never went out with us, but now he just shows up everywhere because his brother finds out and tells him. I dont want to lock myself in the house forever. Youre right, I dont know what he's capable of, and thats why Im leaning towards getting the papers to keep him away. I already activated the call blocking and call tracing. He just calls from other numbers. I said we can just be friends, and he needed to stop calling and we just speak in public, but he wont stop calling, and Im not interested in any interaction with him whatsoever.

Oh well tell him that you don't like him, and maybe if he lowers his Creepiness Scale you can be just friends.
But if you don't want to be his friend i would just ignore him and not worry about him unless he keeps up

LOL @ Creepiness Scale
It is creepy though.

This post has been edited by Cristy: Sep 28 2009, 05:34 PM

Reason for edit: Merged double posts. - Cristy