How do you get rid of a stalker? |
 Sep 28 2009, 01:04 PM
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I met this guy a week ago, and we have been having loooong conversations over the phone. I just realized I dont like him as more than a friend. After 3 days he claimed he loved me.
 Also he is too playful and childish. I told him that I wasnt into him anymore, and I would just see him around. I noticed that he started to hang out in places where I go, and I have never seen him there EVER until we started to talk. He wont stop calling me. Its 1pm my time, and checking my CID, he's already called 19 times, and left 13 messages. He keeps saying he wont stop calling until I talk to him, but when I did speak to him, he just tried to convince me I was making a mistake. HE still keeps calling!!!!Ok, so Im thinking my next step is restraining order. |
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Sep 28 2009, 02:25 PM
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talk to him, just because he isn't MORE than a friend doesn't mean he isn't a friend. don't just ignore him.
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Sep 28 2009, 02:40 PM
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QUOTE(Tramatize @ Sep 28 2009, 02:25 PM)  talk to him, just because he isn't MORE than a friend doesn't mean he isn't a friend. don't just ignore him. Um, he said he loved me after a few days... Thats scary. He doesnt want to be my friend. He keeps telling me all the things he want to do to me, like that will make me change my mind. It was what pushed me away to start with. |
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Sep 28 2009, 02:47 PM
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QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 28 2009, 03:40 PM) Um, he said he loved me after a few days... Thats scary. He doesnt want to be my friend. He keeps telling me all the things he want to do to me, like that will make me change my mind. It was what pushed me away to start with. Oh well tell him that you don't like him, and maybe if he lowers his Creepiness Scale you can be just friends. But if you don't want to be his friend i would just ignore him and not worry about him unless he keeps up |
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Fat2death How do you get rid of a stalker? Sep 28 2009, 01:04 PM
jcp you taking it to seriously. He'll stop botheri... Sep 28 2009, 02:04 PM karmakiller Make it very clear to him that you're not inte... Sep 28 2009, 03:43 PM Fat2death QUOTE(karmakiller @ Sep 28 2009, 03:43 PM... Sep 28 2009, 04:11 PM Cristy QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 28 2009, 05:11 PM) ... Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM
Fat2death QUOTE(Cristy @ Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM) Cha... Sep 28 2009, 06:01 PM
Fat2death QUOTE(Cristy @ Sep 28 2009, 05:43 PM) Cha... Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM karmakiller QUOTE(Fat2death @ Sep 29 2009, 03:31 PM) ... Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM Fat2death QUOTE(karmakiller @ Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM... Sep 29 2009, 04:21 PM transcendentalism Kill him.
He sounds like a child. Restraining ord... Sep 28 2009, 07:00 PM transcendentalism ^
QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 28 2009, 07... Sep 30 2009, 06:43 PM Fat2death QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 30 2009, 06... Sep 30 2009, 07:33 PM jcp now your not overeacting. Sep 29 2009, 03:47 PM Fat2death QUOTE(jcp @ Sep 29 2009, 03:47 PM) now yo... Sep 29 2009, 04:07 PM IWontRapeYou idk Most stalker scenarios end in a suicide/homici... Sep 29 2009, 04:08 PM paozuu the more you reject, the more he wants to try. jus... Sep 29 2009, 04:35 PM colddesert Ya, I had this guy who would call me, text me, sho... Sep 29 2009, 11:24 PM DoubleJ YOU have a stalker?! Sep 30 2009, 01:16 AM fire WHAT IF YOURE WRONG AND HE COMPLETES YOU?!???... Sep 30 2009, 02:42 AM colddesert QUOTE(fire @ Sep 30 2009, 01:42 AM) WHAT ... Sep 30 2009, 01:59 PM Fat2death These long conversations werent abut us. They were... Sep 30 2009, 12:34 PM Fat2death Ok Instant... You got me. I left a few details out... Sep 30 2009, 05:35 PM IWontRapeYou kill him Sep 30 2009, 05:39 PM IWontRapeYou LOLOL great minds think a like eh? Sep 30 2009, 07:10 PM transcendentalism RE: How do you get rid of a stalker? Sep 30 2009, 07:11 PM |
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