am i taking this whole no talking for a day too seriously?, i just need help, please. Options

[StubbornFemme]

okay, so ill try to make this short:

ive been dating this current guy, mike for almost 2 months now. we're dating exclusively which he confirmed that weeks ago..so these past two days (monday and tuesday) hes been kinda silent. okay so we usually send each other good morning text msgs but we take turns on each day..monday was his day, he didnt send me anything which is weird...so throughout the whole day i got nothing..so i txted him around 8 at night jst plain asking hey, "hows everything? i havent heard from you" type of thing. he didnt txt back but he got on AIM a little later to talk to me and it was nice and all.. (and he never goes on AIM but only to talk to me) so i guess i was glad he did talk to me but it bugged me alittle that he couldnt txt me back..he explained that he was sick and etc. (sigh.) so yesterday, it was my turn to say good morning and i did..again nothing. the whole day was silent, he didnt even come on AIM to talk to me like he did on monday but he obviously had time to update his status on fbook and post a video on myspace -__-

and im the type that gets super paranoid (which is a flaw of mine but i cant help it) so i have no idea whats up with him..i keep having these crazy assumptions that it might be this or that, does he want to break up, another person, or i dont know! but yesterday really made me feel weird..like a empty/upset feeling b/c honestly talking to him makes my day and i just dont know what to do. my friends are saying just dont do anything today and wait for him to talk to me..then talk to him about it but chill about it till he does...so am i just taking this too seriously?

[Fat2death]

Dont sweat the small stuff. A lot of females make the mistake of making their guy too much of their day. Start a hobby. Ignore him! If youre not a part of his day anymore, dont make the effort to try contacting him. Guys love it when you chase them, and so do we as females. Stop calling him and reverse this game. Right now he is in control. We cant have that can we?
In the future dont plan how you correspond with your significant other. It should be spontaneous. That way you wont expect anything and get upset when it doesnt go that way. Anyhow, you will be ok. If its another woman, he doesnt deserve you, and your giving him too much of your heart. Try giving him a little of your ass....to kiss that is.

[karmakiller]

In the future dont plan how you correspond with your significant other. It should be spontaneous. That way you wont expect anything and get upset when it doesnt go that way.

I agree with this.

There isn't anything wrong with telling him that you enjoy getting messages from him or that you miss him. I don't know if he's been in a lot of other relationships, but right now it is just the beginning of your guys' relationship so he may not even know what you want or like for him to do. The next time you see him you should let him know that when he text messages you it makes your day better and that you enjoy them... he'll probably text you more then because he wants you to be happy and have a good day. Right now he does it because that's what you two have worked out. If he's new at the "official relationship" thing it may feel like he's ignoring you simply because he isn't used to having a girlfriend. Don't demand him to drop everything and be there for you at your beckoning call, but find ways to spend more time together/IM/talk/text/etc.