help..what's going on? Options

[Edwinbarkhordari...]

So, Ive been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 2 years and she has moved away to college in Arizona while im still here in California. Before she left we hung out everyday and we loved each other very much..It was as if I didn't see her for one day then I would be sad and I would miss her. Now, She has left for college and she says that she has changed and that she has learned to put herself before everyone else and that before she left she put everyone else before her. She also says that she wants to be independent in the sense that she doesn't want to feel bad if she misses my calls or texts but, we are still together and still love each other. I feel as if she doesn't care anymore or something..What do you guys think? She also said that it will never be the same when she comes back as far as hanging out everyday and stuff.

[*instantmusic*]

she has moved away to college

A man has happened. I'm sorry. You will feel crushed. Saddened. Destroyed. And then angry. Enlightened. Cautious. Moved on. Lesson learned. It will be a dreadful process.

Two things can happen:

You'll become the guy that sees multiple women at once.
Or you'll be the guy that waits forever for your next 'right' one.

Say I ain't right.

[sixfive]

A man has happened. I'm sorry. You will feel crushed. Saddened. Destroyed. And then angry. Enlightened. Cautious. Moved on. Lesson learned. It will be a dreadful process.

Two things can happen:

You'll become the guy that sees multiple women at once.
Or you'll be the guy that waits forever for your next 'right' one.

Say I ain't right.

Doesn't have to wait forever for the next 'right' one. Also things don't necessarily happen in that order, but I'd say pretty bingo right hur right hurrrr.