what would you do..., .... Options

[XxKrNqTcUiTyxX]

if your friends started to like your exes? Someone who I thought was my best friend started to flirt with my ex, and now has feelings for him. WTF. And she did this WHILE she had a boyfriend. And she KNOWS I still have feelings for my ex. And she's also looking for sympathy saying, oh I still like my boyfriend but I'm going to break up with him, and I like your ex also, omg I want to roll over and die, this is hard, and shiz like that. Damn, I don't know what to do....I know I should move on with my life, but it's really hard....

[Darkpekkle]

i thought the quote was "love is not selfish" ? (confused, lol).

anyways, i've had things like this happen before too. sometimes, there's nothing that can really be done. you can't help who you fall in "love" with or who your crush likes, but i totally agree that it's really messed up she started to flirt with him WHILE she was still in a relationship with another guy. i also agree that she should have respected your feelings, i mean. that's what friends are supposed to be for. comfort. not backstab and betrayal. try to make it clear to her that you need more time to move on and that she should minimize expressing her feelings about your ex. put her in your shoes. also mention that this whole thing is putting a strain on your important friendship...

i understand the position you're in, and i really hope things will work out in the end. (sorry i know i'm not much help). =T