Dr. :santa: Options

[brooklyneast05]

well i had to make a new thread since TJ ruined my last one. we're starting over.

i've decided to be the self proclaimed relationship expert of createblog's relationship forum. if you need advice, just post your problem here and i will guide you through your trouble waters and relationship hurdles.






NOTICE: don't ask me about mr. compatibility. this thread isn't mr. compatibility. if you have a problem with mr. compatibility's production speed then go find someone else to be him. i'll do it when i want to and i won't when i don't.


this is Dr. , don't get the two confused

[libertie]

Thankfully, I don't place these huge demands on him or anything, lol. As far as me waiting for him to call, he pretty much calls at certain times every day (he works and most of the time he'll call me really quick on his lunch break, then when he gets off work and such).. The problem is I'll spend my entire day feeling anxious up to that point, waiting for that phone call. I feel like a parasite or something.

When he asks for space, I'm not gonna lie, I am initially kind of stung by it. But I'm not lying when I say I AM okay with giving him the space he needs, so I try not to let him SEE that I'm a little upset at first. The reaction I've been giving lately is to smile (as genuinely as possible) and just say it's not a big deal, because even if I'm acting spoiled about it, deep down I KNOW it's not a big deal so I'm not lying to him. I've learned that if I even let my emotions show a little bit, though, it ruins the whole thing and puts him in a bad mood. Not that I'm being fake or dishonest, I'm just trying to suppress the "spoiled girl not getting what she wants" reaction because that's not an accurate picture of how I REALLY feel. It's just how I react initially to being told I can't have something, before I give myself time to think about it. :P

..yeah.. Even as a girl growing up without a whole lot, most of us still have spoiled tendencies.