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post Jul 31 2009, 05:58 PM
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post Aug 1 2009, 01:16 AM
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Should I continue to pretend to care about what my self-centered, obsessive friend talks about? Or should I give it to her straight up and say "Damn bitch, your life sucks. Now be quiet and let me share a little bit about myself"? Because I never get a word in edgewise.
 
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post Aug 1 2009, 03:35 PM
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QUOTE(livwho @ Aug 1 2009, 02:16 AM) *
Should I continue to pretend to care about what my self-centered, obsessive friend talks about? Or should I give it to her straight up and say "Damn bitch, your life sucks. Now be quiet and let me share a little bit about myself"? Because I never get a word in edgewise.


I always have this problem with my friends but I always put the situation like this. Think of how you would feel if you were in your position. I mean listen friends are supposed to be people that you can depend on, vent to, and just lean on during times of need. Now does that mean that you have to listen to her bitch and complain all the time? No. I would just tell her that if she isn't going to listen to your advice or at least work to try and resolve her issues, she shouldn't be venting to you any longer about them. People have lives and situations that they may need advice on as well. The world isn't always about her.
 

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DoubleJ   Ask The Black Irishman   Jul 31 2009, 05:58 PM
ArjunaCapulong   didn't know you were irish bro lol oh wait ...   Jul 31 2009, 06:02 PM
serotonin   LOL BITER WAT DO U WEAR ONE LEG PANT HALFWAY UP   Jul 31 2009, 06:36 PM
DoubleJ   are y'all gonna ask questions or not?   Jul 31 2009, 07:01 PM
serotonin   is life worth living? should I blast myself?   Jul 31 2009, 07:04 PM
brooklyneast05   QUOTE(serotonin @ Jul 31 2009, 07:04 PM) ...   Jul 31 2009, 07:08 PM
DoubleJ   QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jul 31 2009, 08:08...   Jul 31 2009, 07:13 PM
DoubleJ   well it depends. What is your life situation right...   Jul 31 2009, 07:07 PM
superstitious   Family from out of state is here. They'll be g...   Jul 31 2009, 07:08 PM
Teesa   so what if i met this guy and he's super great...   Jul 31 2009, 07:27 PM
DoubleJ   erm no. What if I met a girl who said that she was...   Jul 31 2009, 07:37 PM
brooklyneast05   answer http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...   Jul 31 2009, 07:42 PM
DoubleJ   no I meant as if she seriously wouldn't go out...   Jul 31 2009, 07:47 PM
brooklyneast05   well, teesa is difficult, so she probably wouldn...   Jul 31 2009, 07:53 PM
ArjunaCapulong   QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jul 31 2009, 08:53...   Jul 31 2009, 07:54 PM
DoubleJ   this is true she does know me. Teesa I am not goi...   Jul 31 2009, 08:13 PM
Teesa   haha, sorry i was messing up your thread with not ...   Jul 31 2009, 10:47 PM
DoubleJ   bump   Jul 31 2009, 10:25 PM
Melie   mr irishman, i live in upstate NY now and there...   Jul 31 2009, 10:30 PM
DoubleJ   Melie I have no clue haha! Teesa - I would ju...   Aug 1 2009, 12:20 AM
Melie   QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Jul 31 2009, 11:20 PM) Me...   Aug 2 2009, 10:00 PM
DoubleJ   QUOTE(Melie @ Aug 2 2009, 11:00 PM) lmao ...   Aug 3 2009, 09:58 AM
Teesa   good advice jj-and you're right! that woul...   Aug 1 2009, 12:26 AM
fire   Seeing that there is a high proportion of asians o...   Aug 1 2009, 12:42 AM
DoubleJ   Maybe because some of them can't deal with the...   Aug 1 2009, 12:45 AM
livwho   Should I continue to pretend to care about what my...   Aug 1 2009, 01:16 AM
DoubleJ   QUOTE(livwho @ Aug 1 2009, 02:16 AM) Shou...   Aug 1 2009, 03:35 PM
Buttsex   why is levar burton yelling at me i didn't do ...   Aug 1 2009, 01:40 AM
Teesa   okay, now here's a question that you need to t...   Aug 1 2009, 03:59 PM
DoubleJ   I got two new pairs! You know I was upset when...   Aug 1 2009, 04:11 PM
Teesa   haha aw, that's good to hear :)   Aug 1 2009, 04:15 PM
DoubleJ   yeah I was a bit upset when they broke. You know I...   Aug 1 2009, 04:48 PM
hypnotique   Should I go visit the guy I like down in Texas eve...   Aug 1 2009, 06:04 PM
DoubleJ   I think that he should come up and see you. You be...   Aug 1 2009, 06:17 PM
hypnotique   Thank you!   Aug 1 2009, 06:28 PM
DoubleJ   Sorry if I was a bit long winded, but I like to gi...   Aug 1 2009, 06:44 PM
hypnotique   No it was actually helpful   Aug 1 2009, 09:51 PM
DoubleJ   thanks. Anybody else need any advice don't be ...   Aug 1 2009, 10:02 PM


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