Making the pick. Options

[Maccabee]

Thing is, im a player and jerk.

A little history...
There was this really cute girl, a little shorter then me and I liked her and she liked me and we never said we were officially dating because she wasn't aloud (stupid dating in jr high) but I only realized now that she must have seen it as dating. This is the part where I am a total douche. I stopped having feelings for her, because I didnt want to non officially date and I mean, she is a "conservative" girl... and I felt like i had achieved my goal of getting her. I know...I know... so I just kind of lost contact and didnt give any closer. Obviously for that she hates me but she is still in love with me. Then I finally regained contact with this girl that I went to camp with and I had a crush on her at camp and turns out so did she... have one on me... so we talked and I decided that I would ask her out when she got back from idaho. I didnt tell her that of course. Well I didnt talk to her on the phone for one day and she felt like I didnt want her... O crap... a needy girl... well anyways I saw that other girl today and well she was really cute and her friends were all bugging me about how I broke her heart blah blah blah... well the thing is... i like both of those girls... does this make me a jerk? Can it not be real if it isnt an obvious choice, ya know? So should I think about it then follow my heart and pick one? That seems like a jerky thing to do? ya know? whatevs... more like me typing what im feeling.

O and of course they both arent Caucasian... hehehe. I dont do Caucasian. but they arent black or mexican... hehe.

O and if I were to "pick" you might want some info...

girl one = short, cute, Vietnamese, doesnt like spreading the love.
girl two = also short, cute, European, needy, messed up family, likes spreading the love.

And of course... I will look back it this in two years and laugh. Dating when you dont even have a car is stupid in my opinion.

I will now gaurd myself for the responses to come.

[AimeeLynn]

Ok well first off, get to know both of them. Make sure you know what you are getting yourself into and know who they are. Get some background check on them and see if they have any bad points in them.
They seem like both cute girls. Don't only judge by beauty. Make sure your likes are compatible with yours etc.
It's not wrong to like two people at once.
Take them both out on a friendly date (not official). See they way the both react and say about everything.
Then decide which to choose.
Good luck!

[Maccabee]

Ok well first off, get to know both of them. Make sure you know what you are getting yourself into and know who they are. Get some background check on them and see if they have any bad points in them.
They seem like both cute girls. Don't only judge by beauty. Make sure your likes are compatible with yours etc.
It's not wrong to like two people at once.
Take them both out on a friendly date (not official). See they way the both react and say about everything.
Then decide which to choose.
Good luck!

I think that decides it... girl one cant date. I would only be able to see her like once a week.
And girl two isnt necessarily needy, i understand how she thought that.

[AimeeLynn]

I think that decides it... girl one cant date. I would only be able to see her like once a week.
And girl two isnt necessarily needy, i understand how she thought that.

Then why make the effort to even try to be with girl one if she can't date...

I think there should be a problem which one to date since girl one can't even date at all.