best friend's ex Options

[Tung]

Hey guys, I haven't been posting or on cB for a while, because I've been having so much drama and stuff going on with my personal life right now. So basically, to make things short and simple.

So there's this girl who use to date my best friend back in highschool, and they've been apart for three years now. And this girl, I haven't talk to her in 2 years. So last Wednesday, she calls me up while I was working out at the gym. She said she was in town in Davis where I go to school. She wanted to hang out. I was kinda thrown off, because out of nowhere she pops up and calls me when we haven't spoke to me in two years. Apparently, she told me she's always had a crush on me since 10th grade. So yeah, I told her Wednesday night I couldn't hang out cuz I had a midterm to study for. Also, I didn't want to hang out with her, knowing she dated my best friend 3 years ago. So nothing good will happen.

However, last Thursday night, I was at my friends kickback party, and I decided to text her and invited her. I had no intentions whatsoever. I just was just trying to have a good time at the party, and invite alot of people. So yeah, apparently I ended up getting really wasted and drunk, and my roommate had to take me back to the apartment to bed, and the girl followed along to look after me, while my roommate goes back to the party. So yeah, from there we were alone at the apartment, and we ended up having sex.

So yeah, basically I been feeling like shit, and tried to ignore her last friday, but she told my other friend she really missed me and wanted to talk to me you know. So I decided to hang out with her on Saturday, and shes been at my apartment for this past weekend. We got into a huge argument last night because, last night in bed, we were making out, and then we stopped. I then said "well if nothing's gonna happen tonight, I'm going to sleep". She got really pissed, and cried, and said I was using her. We argued and talked over things for 2-3 hours up to 5am last night. We ended up just cuddling and going back to sleep. I don't know what to do with this situation. We both want to make it work going out, but the fact that shes my best friend's ex, really complicates stuff. What should I do?

[brooklyneast05]

well how serious was their relationship? did they date for like years and he loved her or they just dated short term, it ended, and he doesn't give a f*ck about her anymore.

[none345678]

well how serious was their relationship? did they date for like years and he loved her or they just dated short term, it ended, and he doesn't give a f*ck about her anymore.

That's what I'm wondering. Just ask your friend. I mean 3 years should be enough to get over most any relationship, but if he has a problem with it don't go for it.