Do I LOOK like a slut?, my mom thinks so... Options

[AimeeLynn]

My mom thinks I had sex with my current boyfriend. What the f**k. She thinks I'm some slut going around having sex I wish that she would understand that loving someone doesn't have to involve sex. But now my mom is asking me to check with a doctor if I had done it or not. Do I have a reason to be angry? I am so mad. I can't believe she thought I had done it. T_T I made a bet to her that if I am right I would get a new cell phone. My problem is the results. I never had sex but I had done other things. I saw no blood does that mean I am a virgin?

PG-13

[tecknoreject]

My mom thinks I had sex with my current boyfriend. What the f**k. She thinks I'm some slut going around having sex I wish that she would understand that loving someone doesn't have to involve sex. But now my mom is asking me to check with a doctor if I had done it or not. Do I have a reason to be angry? I am so mad. I can't believe she thought I had done it. T_T I made a bet to her that if I am right I would get a new cell phone. My problem is the results. I never had sex but I had done other things. I saw no blood does that mean I am a virgin?

PG-13

The thing that really pisses me off about parents like yours is that they more than likely had sex as teenagers. If they grew up in the 70's or 80's that is almost assured. When I was in school a girl was only a called a slut if she was doing a bunch of guys (not all at the same time). If a guy was doing several girls he was called a man whore. Most everyone I knew as a teenager had sex by age 15 or 16 and it was no big deal. Parents need to quit freakin out and talk with their children about sex and build a trust relationship with them so that teens know that they could talk with them about anything.

I used to teach and had a couple of female students ask me what a blowjob was. I about crapped my pants at that point but kept my cool and explained that they really need to talk with their moms about that and that it wouldn't be right or ethical for me to tell them. They said their moms would freak and I said that they would probably feel elated that their teenager trusted them enough to actually talk to them about such things. The next day the girls came to me and told me that their moms were shocked, not cause of the subject that asked about but that they asked them. The reason I told them to ask their mom and not their dad is cause dads would immediately go on the warpath and kill every guy that came near their daughter.