Self concious about my scarred legs...help? |
 May 10 2009, 02:51 PM
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Hey, I have a question or two about what people may think when they see the scars on my legs. I go to a private school and I have to wear a skirt and you can see that my knees have quite a few scars. Around school I'm comfortable because people there know how I get them, but when I walk home, I feel VERY VERY self conscious. I used to play sports and I used to play soccer on gravel(our school doesn't have a proper grass field). I even have this circular, dark scar on my kneecap from playing basketball when a guy fell on top of me and i skidded, practically scraping off the whole layer of skin. I dont allow myself to wear anything that's above the bottom of my knee and that's nearly impossible when finding a dress or having to dress up for an occasion. I dont like wearing shorts, and I despise skirts. I don't despise the skirts themselves, but I just hate hte fact that my fear of people being disgusted keep from wearing a pretty skirt or some great shorts. Inside I'm a girly girl who loves skirts.
To get to the point: What would you think if you saw a girl with a lot of scars on her knees, and how can you overcome your selfconsciousness. |
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May 11 2009, 07:06 AM
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 MissCuppyCake ---> I Married The MuffinMan --- <3 Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,953 |
haha..
im gonna be nice && nice be a bitch.. seriously, no one notices what so ever.. if you saw my legs you would be like.. OHHH!!! haha.. no one notices, or cares.. we are in the 21st century, && sorry to say but people do NOT pay attention to sh*t! haha.. :) |
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Jun 29 2009, 10:32 PM
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 (Allison) Group: Human Posts: 420 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,668 |
QUOTE(MissCuppyCake @ May 11 2009, 04:06 AM)  haha.. im gonna be nice && nice be a bitch.. seriously, no one notices what so ever.. if you saw my legs you would be like.. OHHH!!! haha.. no one notices, or cares.. we are in the 21st century, && sorry to say but people do NOT pay attention to sh*t! haha.. :) Believe it or not, it's a little deeper than that, dear. Someone who is self conscious can tell herself all she wants that no one notices or cares, but it still feels like everyone is just like, "Ew." Anyway. I agree--Go out and buy some scar reducer shtuff like Mederma. I had a lot of ugly scars, and I got some delightfulness to put on them, and they turned from that nasty brown/purple color to white-ish. They're not going to fully go away, but they'll be a million times less noticeable, and you're feel a lot better! I also had a similar problem with shorts & skirts because I just flat out don't like my knees. But I bought a pair of shorts that I really really liked, and now I'm a little better about it. So yes. Don't just pick up any old skirt and expect it to be easy...Find a skirt or shorts that you love and really want to wear. That's all. Good luck. :) |
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mzvee Self concious about my scarred legs...help? May 10 2009, 02:51 PM
DressYourEyelids babe, consider yourself lucky; there's people ... May 10 2009, 03:00 PM illriginal Oh ffs, stop being so self centered. There's p... May 10 2009, 04:28 PM karmakiller You could use something like mederma to help the s... May 10 2009, 04:37 PM reupONtrees pics 4 judgement plz, actually no, i love women... May 10 2009, 05:47 PM Superase You really shouldn't care what people think. J... May 11 2009, 07:53 AM xojessiee you should see tahlia from americas next top model... Jun 12 2009, 10:05 PM livwho Dude, where I come, scars are f*cking GLORIFIED.
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serotonin QUOTE(livwho @ Jun 30 2009, 02:25 AM) Dud... Jun 30 2009, 10:39 AM
livwho QUOTE(serotonin @ Jun 30 2009, 10:39 AM) ... Jul 5 2009, 01:40 AM HeartOfPandora QUOTE(livwho @ Jun 30 2009, 02:25 AM) Lov... Jul 8 2009, 12:17 AM kryogenix Be like the Joker. Make up a story about how you g... Jun 30 2009, 10:45 AM ley I have a few scars on my legs too i used to bitch ... Jun 30 2009, 11:12 AM frogthumb Everyone has scars sweetie it's nothing to be ... Oct 7 2009, 08:54 PM halfangelfreak Don't worry, I know tons of guys (including my... Nov 3 2009, 04:17 PM Beenly Eh, OP. I have it worse...
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