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post Jan 26 2009, 07:26 AM
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For the sake of boredom, conversation and an attempt to combine a bunch of different topics...

I understand that my approach to relationships and friendships may differ greatly from yours, maybe not. Either way, at what point does an opposite-gender friendship become a potential intimate relationship?

Is it worth it?

Your significant other is, ultimately, your best friend, so would such a friendship make for a better relationship?

Do you have one friend (of the opposie sex) in your life that you could see yourself with?

 
 
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post Jan 29 2009, 01:48 PM
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I think that the more time you spend with someone and the more you and another connect that's where feelings begin to come into play.

I say this because in good relationships two people who've known each other for a while and have gotten to know each other well and bond with each other over time, they tend to grow feelings towards each other

As friends the friendship changes depending on the type of experiences the two people go through.

For example (and this is jus from what i see and think i'm not stating anything that's set in stone) if two people know each other all their life and basically live like they are brother and sister then their friendship tends to grow like that and that's how they see each other. then usuallly they find out that they are better off close friends either through expeimenting with each other or they just make it known to each other from the jump.

if two people meet each other and get to know each other, talking hanging out and opening up to each other over time then usually they end up getting closer and then when the exeriences become physical then the relationship changes

kinda like that...
anyway i'm in class so trying to focus is a lil tough lol
 
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post Jun 23 2009, 08:17 PM
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QUOTE(Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto @ Jan 29 2009, 11:48 AM) *
I think that the more time you spend with someone and the more you and another connect that's where feelings begin to come into play.

I say this because in good relationships two people who've known each other for a while and have gotten to know each other well and bond with each other over time, they tend to grow feelings towards each other

This is how one of my guy friends and I are. We've known each other for about 7 years now and we're good friends. We talk about pretty much anything and we're comfortable around each other. But we stopped talking for a couple of years because we weren't in the same classes and hung out with different people. However this past year when we started talking again, I began to develop feelings for him. But I don't want to be more than friends with him because it can ruin our friendship and make things awkward. On the other hand I wouldn't mind being with him because he's such a sweet and funny guy. But I dk. Honestly, I'd rather be left wondering "what if" instead of having a weird friendship with him if things don't go well.
 

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WarMachine   Crossing the Line   Jan 26 2009, 07:26 AM
Comptine   A lot of people say that females and males cannot ...   Jan 27 2009, 12:47 AM
gojira   rambling. this makes me think of musiq soulchild -...   Jan 27 2009, 02:29 AM
WarMachine   QUOTE(gojira @ Jan 27 2009, 10:29 AM) ram...   Jan 27 2009, 02:42 AM
gojira   QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 27 2009, 02:42 AM)...   Jan 27 2009, 03:10 AM
KINGdinguhling   QUOTE(gojira @ Jan 27 2009, 12:10 AM) why...   Jan 27 2009, 03:14 AM
WarMachine   QUOTE(gojira @ Jan 27 2009, 11:10 AM) why...   Jan 27 2009, 06:13 AM
KINGdinguhling   QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 27 2009, 03:13 AM)...   Jan 27 2009, 01:59 PM
loveneko   QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 26 2009, 08:26 AM)...   Jan 28 2009, 01:10 PM
Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto   QUOTE(loveneko @ Jan 28 2009, 01:10 PM) I...   Jan 29 2009, 02:00 PM
hi-C   I don't know, I think men and women can be fri...   Jan 28 2009, 06:57 PM
Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto   I think that the more time you spend with someone ...   Jan 29 2009, 01:48 PM
manny-the-dino   QUOTE(Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto @ Jan 29 ...   Jun 23 2009, 08:17 PM
towntown2   I have three best guy friends, and I will talk abo...   Jan 29 2009, 10:06 PM
kryogenix   Dating someone completely stranger can be fun, des...   Jan 29 2009, 10:12 PM
WarMachine   In hindsight; this is a total dice roll. I'm n...   Jun 23 2009, 09:47 AM
ley   QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 26 2009, 07:26 AM)...   Jun 23 2009, 10:38 AM
hypnotique   I don't do "f*ckbuddies" nor do i al...   Jun 23 2009, 11:45 AM


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