Crossing the Line |
Crossing the Line |
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![]() ^_^ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 ![]() |
For the sake of boredom, conversation and an attempt to combine a bunch of different topics...
I understand that my approach to relationships and friendships may differ greatly from yours, maybe not. Either way, at what point does an opposite-gender friendship become a potential intimate relationship? Is it worth it? Your significant other is, ultimately, your best friend, so would such a friendship make for a better relationship? Do you have one friend (of the opposie sex) in your life that you could see yourself with? |
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![]() Ley <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 ![]() |
For the sake of boredom, conversation and an attempt to combine a bunch of different topics... I understand that my approach to relationships and friendships may differ greatly from yours, maybe not. Either way, at what point does an opposite-gender friendship become a potential intimate relationship? Is it worth it? Your significant other is, ultimately, your best friend, so would such a friendship make for a better relationship? Do you have one friend (of the opposie sex) in your life that you could see yourself with? I think men and women can def be friends. I have alot of guy friends that i love and it would be hard to live without. The chances of me hooking up with them is pretty much zero. I'm not going to say their is no attraction because a few of them have told me the only reason they started talking to me was because they liked me, but it grew into a friendship. I did at one time date a guy that was one of my best friends, i thought it was def worth it. I loved him as a friend before we got together, and i dont think i have or ever will love a guy as much as i did him. I think us being friends is what made our relationship so great. We knew alot about each other and i loved that he wouldn't take any of my shit. We were always completely honest and comfortable with each other. The downside was we ended up going to college in different places and wouldn't see each other as much as we hoped. I made the decision we should go back to being just friends and see other people. We both thought this would be a good thing and when he got back if we were meant to be together we would. I was doing the single drunk college freshman girl thing. He was doing the poke as many girls as possible thing, and he got a girl pregnant. When he got back it just wasn't the same to me. His babymama would call me saying how i was taking her baby's dad away. It was too much for me to handle at the time. I can fight a million bitches for my man but not a baby. So we broke up. Anyway we are to this day really good friends. I actually spent the day with him this last sunday on fathers day (my dads out of town). To me it was worth it, and even after a relationship we are still friends. |
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