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Life Problem! i need your opinion!
iExquisite
post May 29 2009, 01:21 PM
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i seem to want attention from boys
like i want them to be looking at me

does this means i'm gay?/

&& by the way.. i do like girls!
I am a boy, 15 years old.
What do you think. i want you honest opinion . Thank you

P.S. when i was about 11
i was browsing and playing online games on the net
when i saw this gay ad and this is how it all started
i clicked it and i think i got more and more into it
i was never able to be aroused when i look at a guy all my life\in fact i used to look at a couple of victoria secret magazines but
i guess something changed and i was able to get aroused by boy in a couple of months
and besides i have been called gay tons of times and when i saw the ad
i was curious
this is the part i kinda left out
Reason for edit: Apparently this topic was moved from the Lounge to Relationships without the mod saying anything. -karmakiller
 
 
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karmakiller
post May 29 2009, 01:31 PM
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What kind of attention from boys? Like, you want friends? Or you want them to grab your ass?
 
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post May 29 2009, 01:36 PM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 29 2009, 11:31 PM) *
What kind of attention from boys? Like, you want friends? Or you want them to grab your ass?

Can I <3 yours?

btw.

Dandre, just act normal, if they come close to you, take out a gun and shoot them.
 
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post May 29 2009, 01:39 PM
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QUOTE(Deospeon @ May 29 2009, 02:36 PM) *
Can I <3 yours?

btw.

Dandre, just act normal, if they come close to you, take out a gun and shoot them.


i know
i mean i don't want them grabbing me
although that would be a way to know they want me
 
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post May 29 2009, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(dandreblac @ May 29 2009, 01:39 PM) *
i know
i mean i don't want them grabbing me
although that would be a way to know they want me

You know I wasn't being serious, right?

Here's me being serious: You're still young and are probably just learning about your sexuality. Just because you may look a guy and find him a attractive does not mean that you are sexually attracted to them. There's a lot of girls that I find sexy, but that doesn't mean I want throw them into my bed. There isn't anything wrong with you finding a guy attractive, but if gets to a point where you desire them in the way that you desire females then you questioning your sexuality is warranted.
 
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post May 29 2009, 01:53 PM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 29 2009, 02:50 PM) *
You know I wasn't being serious, right?

Here's me being serious: You're still young and are probably just learning about your sexuality. Just because you may look a guy and find him a attractive does not mean that you are sexually attracted to them. There's a lot of girls that I find sexy, but that doesn't mean I want throw them into my bed. There isn't anything wrong with you finding a guy attractive, but if gets to a point where you desire them in the way that you desire females then you questioning your sexuality is warranted.


well sometimes i do think about having sex with them
i have had tons of thoughts about it
i usually ask myself- how does it feel? is it good?
and i should mention i do watch gay porn
to be specific i usually watch solo gay porn - only one person
not two men having sex
 
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post May 29 2009, 01:59 PM
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QUOTE(dandreblac @ May 29 2009, 01:53 PM) *
well sometimes i do think about having sex with them
i have had tons of thoughts about it
i usually ask myself- how does it feel? is it good?
and i should mention i do watch gay porn
to be specific i usually watch solo gay porn - only one person
not two men having sex

I'm sure your momma would hate me for saying this, but you don't know until you try it. If you're thinking about being with a guy and end up in a healthy relationship with a woman you may always having feelings towards men that wish you would've acted upon. You may be gay, or it may just be the "what if..." and no one here can tell you which one it is.
 
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post May 29 2009, 02:05 PM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 29 2009, 02:59 PM) *
I'm sure your momma would hate me for saying this, but you don't know until you try it. If you're thinking about being with a guy and end up in a healthy relationship with a woman you may always having feelings towards men that wish you would've acted upon. You may be gay, or it may just be the "what if..." and no one here can tell you which one it is.


okay but i don't think i am ready for any acts with i guy
i mean like i said i fantasize about it
but as for now i am 15
and i am not into the whole having sex at my age right now
to make things worst with a boy
but it is something to think about
 

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dandreblac   Life Problem! i need your opinion!   May 29 2009, 01:21 PM
Deospeon   Please Post a picture of yourself.   May 29 2009, 01:25 PM
karmakiller   What kind of attention from boys? Like, you want f...   May 29 2009, 01:31 PM
Deospeon   QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 29 2009, 11:31 PM...   May 29 2009, 01:36 PM
dandreblac   QUOTE(Deospeon @ May 29 2009, 02:36 PM) C...   May 29 2009, 01:39 PM
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dandreblac   i am really not comfortable putting my picture on ...   May 29 2009, 01:33 PM
dandreblac   and when i say attention i mean attention in a ...   May 29 2009, 01:34 PM
DressYourEyelids   not necessarily. i know a lot of guys who thrive o...   May 29 2009, 01:39 PM
dandreblac   QUOTE(DressYourEyelids @ May 29 2009, 02...   May 29 2009, 01:48 PM
emberfly   Do you have a good relationship with your father? ...   May 29 2009, 01:47 PM
dandreblac   QUOTE(emberfly @ May 29 2009, 02:47 PM) D...   May 29 2009, 01:50 PM
emberfly   Thanks for skipping my question   May 29 2009, 01:49 PM
emberfly   Professional analysis: You seek attention from ot...   May 29 2009, 01:54 PM
dandreblac   QUOTE(emberfly @ May 29 2009, 02:54 PM) P...   May 29 2009, 01:56 PM
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