my wife need help please Options

[coto2009]

ko here my story..i not really good typo n inglish so please bare with me ty

for 5 year i wus a ***hole .i go out to club to dj como home around 4am 6am
my wife ask me to change i did alot of atuff the make her cry..if she sry n ask me to atay home n not to dj today i go and dj ..and not stay home .well i did a lot of atupid shit becuse a wus ignorate..but i have realize the i wus nott so good to her .so i make change n my life she ask to change and a did.know im super nice dont go out to club stay home go to work i became a realy good husban like sha ask before ..but know she is the 1 who 1 to go out and party .n go to her friend house n stuff ....n when we get to a figth she pull the pass on me .Her:she u do this before bla bla .ok but why do i have to listen to her bring the pass on me becuse im not the men no more .if she 1 me to change n i didi .why bring the pass everytime there is a figth ..or i say i dont like you go out ..her the reazon i dont 1 her out

1.she go out with frind ok the drick at the house then they go n drive to the club n drick more there then they drive back home .ok she is a mother of 3 so if she get pull over she will get a dwi n loss her licence ..so im no happy with that ..
2.i ask her i dont liek when u drick with friend n im not there becuse alchool leade to some else..ok but she get mad
3.she say they i dont let her go out to her friend ok the friend are only 3 house away
ok i tell her this make shure the door is open n do do anything the make other peaple belive you r doint some bad like meesing around with some 1 esle bla bla..make shure remenber your are married..just play cool
her a example

this girl name amanda she is a striper,bi,and she hit on me 1 or 2 time she say she like to f ... me.ok i ignore .i tell my wife ..know my wife his friend with her.here story
bi girl name amanda my wyfe say im goint to april house to have a drick i say ok 10 min later i call her she say im at amandas house i say ok
she live arounf 7:45pm i call her back around 9:45pm i say i goint to bed i got mad becuse i work 10 house a day i only see her for 1 hour so im not goint to wait no more im goint to bed.i ask her come get the house key.ok no i goint over the amanda house the froom door is close i opne the dorr n there is my wife .amanda my friend luis n my friend T I...all i ask my wife is to play cool ..so i tell her i wus very upset becuse i ask u to play cool dont forget you are married with kids if u see the door close please keep open tha way no 1 will belive there is something goin on n the house ...have som respent for me please...she say i dont trus her ..n im over react about that becuse there nothing goint on...rREMENBER this girl amanda 1 to f... me before know she all cool with my wife..n she love sex and she b around more then 1 men at time so im having problem with this matter..

everytime my wife point some aboutn me n need a change i change asap becuse i 1 her to b happy ..some time i dont like it but i do it becuse i 1 to make her happy.but i ask her to stop going out to much n stuff please don be n a room with 3 men becuse peaple will tall shit about you ,,,stop be cool with the girl amanda becuse peaple will look at you like they look at her to .....

please some tell me if im doint some bad please.....

[Maccabee]

Im glad that you are willing to do all those things for her. Just keep your cool and maybe she will come around just like you did. Don't get angry. If you are patient and kind, no matter how freaking hard it is as long as you are being the best you can be, you'll know that you are being a good husband and most importantly a good dad to your 3 kids.

If you would like to talk some more you can message me. Im a therapist.

[coto2009]

Im glad that you are willing to do all those things for her. Just keep your cool and maybe she will come around just like you did. Don't get angry. If you are patient and kind, no matter how freaking hard it is as long as you are being the best you can be, you'll know that you are being a good husband and most importantly a good dad to your 3 kids.

If you would like to talk some more you can message me. Im a therapist.

ty much...i try to do that ..n yes may i need to talk more with u becuse i have a lot of question ..about my family ty muchh