Does this constitute as a rejection?, and if so, what should i do? |
Does this constitute as a rejection?, and if so, what should i do? |
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![]() CheccMate Foo! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 ![]() |
Okay so I met this girl while I was with another chick and started talking. Long story short, I chilled with her one night and we ummm "bom chicka bow wow" lolz. but it was a while ago and we haven't hanged out since. Now she gave me a reply message when I hinted in my message that I just wanted to hang out at home, cook dinner, and watch a movie with her.
It goes: ehh.. im the type to only spend time like that with a guy that im actually going out with.. i know that night at your house we did a lotta stuff and all but i think we jumped into that too fast. i never thought i'd do anything like that outta nowhere. you know i got standards right. so im just saying i like being friends right now. i'm not gonna be doing anything with anyone for a while.. sorry. she still wanna be friends but... like is that a rejection? and wth does that "standards" part mean? |
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 1,036 Joined: May 2009 Member No: 727,246 ![]() |
yes, it's a rejection.
she seems to regret what you two did, as she implied that she had higher standards for herself than that. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 509,557 ![]() |
yes, it's a rejection. she seems to regret what you two did, as she implied that she had higher standards for herself than that. I agree because thats always what I say when I regret doing stuff. But then again, maybe she really just wants to be friends. If you like her, stick it through . be her friend, and in time you'll get to enter her cave of wonder again & be with her if thats what you want too. |
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