Rekindling an old flame, Best way to go about it |
 May 10 2009, 08:09 AM
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I started talking with an old "friend" of mine from high school. I wouldn't be asking for advice from you all if it didnt have a some kinda awkward twist. She has a kid now and is currently with her baby daddy, who I know personally. She says he neglects her, but he is a good father, which is the only reason she is still with him. How do I approach her without scaring her or making it seem like Im trying to house her?
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May 10 2009, 04:56 PM
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Neglecting her? Ha... once you have a child, my good man, it's no longer about you... it's all about the child.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not going to act like I know the guy personally, for all we know the guy is either out with his friends a lot of times or simply is being a father, by being responsible and working hard, bringing home the benjamins to support his child and put a roof over their heads. |
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May 10 2009, 09:32 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(illriginal @ May 10 2009, 04:56 PM)  Neglecting her? Ha... once you have a child, my good man, it's no longer about you... it's all about the child. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not going to act like I know the guy personally, for all we know the guy is either out with his friends a lot of times or simply is being a father, by being responsible and working hard, bringing home the benjamins to support his child and put a roof over their heads. But if its loveless...? |
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May 10 2009, 10:43 PM
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QUOTE(hypnotique @ May 10 2009, 09:32 PM) But if its loveless...? When a woman says "He's neglecting me" it can mean sooo many things, especially with a child in the picture. I don't really know why the OP would want to get involved with a woman who has a child with one of his friends... that's just rocky ground even if her bf/his friend doesn't have hard feelings. |
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May 10 2009, 11:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 10 2009, 11:43 PM) When a woman says "He's neglecting me" it can mean sooo many things, especially with a child in the picture. I don't really know why the OP would want to get involved with a woman who has a child with one of his friends... that's just rocky ground even if her bf/his friend doesn't have hard feelings. Wait OP wants to get involved with the lady?... OP don't cross that path. Don't even give her any temptations, no matter what she says. Have respect for a man's woman, you shouldn't even gaze at a man's woman. |
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May 10 2009, 11:05 PM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE(illriginal @ May 10 2009, 11:01 PM) Wait OP wants to get involved with the lady?... LOL, sorry, I was more amused by that line than I should have been. I think everyone agrees he shouldn't get involved 
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Stuckie Rekindling an old flame May 10 2009, 08:09 AM
DressYourEyelids if she's with someone i would back off. sounds... May 10 2009, 08:26 AM iGio QUOTE(Stuckie @ May 10 2009, 09:09 AM) I ... May 10 2009, 02:00 PM gojira let me make it colorful for you
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iGio QUOTE(illriginal @ May 11 2009, 12:13 AM)... May 12 2009, 03:00 PM karmakiller I don't know why you'd want to start up a ... May 10 2009, 04:51 PM illriginal QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 11 2009, 12:05 AM... May 10 2009, 11:13 PM illriginal Who says it's loveless? You have to let go of ... May 10 2009, 09:56 PM doughnut QUOTE(illriginal @ May 11 2009, 10:56 AM)... May 25 2009, 06:09 AM Stuckie Well the kid aint mine, so I dont want her getting... May 25 2009, 04:58 AM |
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