Rekindling an old flame, Best way to go about it |
 May 10 2009, 08:09 AM
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I started talking with an old "friend" of mine from high school. I wouldn't be asking for advice from you all if it didnt have a some kinda awkward twist. She has a kid now and is currently with her baby daddy, who I know personally. She says he neglects her, but he is a good father, which is the only reason she is still with him. How do I approach her without scaring her or making it seem like Im trying to house her?
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May 10 2009, 04:56 PM
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Neglecting her? Ha... once you have a child, my good man, it's no longer about you... it's all about the child.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not going to act like I know the guy personally, for all we know the guy is either out with his friends a lot of times or simply is being a father, by being responsible and working hard, bringing home the benjamins to support his child and put a roof over their heads. |
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May 10 2009, 09:32 PM
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QUOTE(illriginal @ May 10 2009, 04:56 PM)  Neglecting her? Ha... once you have a child, my good man, it's no longer about you... it's all about the child. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not going to act like I know the guy personally, for all we know the guy is either out with his friends a lot of times or simply is being a father, by being responsible and working hard, bringing home the benjamins to support his child and put a roof over their heads. But if its loveless...? |
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May 10 2009, 10:43 PM
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QUOTE(hypnotique @ May 10 2009, 09:32 PM) But if its loveless...? When a woman says "He's neglecting me" it can mean sooo many things, especially with a child in the picture. I don't really know why the OP would want to get involved with a woman who has a child with one of his friends... that's just rocky ground even if her bf/his friend doesn't have hard feelings. |
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Stuckie Rekindling an old flame May 10 2009, 08:09 AM
DressYourEyelids if she's with someone i would back off. sounds... May 10 2009, 08:26 AM iGio QUOTE(Stuckie @ May 10 2009, 09:09 AM) I ... May 10 2009, 02:00 PM gojira let me make it colorful for you
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iGio QUOTE(illriginal @ May 11 2009, 12:13 AM)... May 12 2009, 03:00 PM karmakiller I don't know why you'd want to start up a ... May 10 2009, 04:51 PM illriginal QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 10 2009, 11:43 PM... May 10 2009, 11:01 PM karmakiller QUOTE(illriginal @ May 10 2009, 11:01 PM)... May 10 2009, 11:05 PM illriginal QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 11 2009, 12:05 AM... May 10 2009, 11:13 PM illriginal Who says it's loveless? You have to let go of ... May 10 2009, 09:56 PM doughnut QUOTE(illriginal @ May 11 2009, 10:56 AM)... May 25 2009, 06:09 AM Stuckie Well the kid aint mine, so I dont want her getting... May 25 2009, 04:58 AM |
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