Rekindling an old flame, Best way to go about it Options

[Stuckie]

I started talking with an old "friend" of mine from high school. I wouldn't be asking for advice from you all if it didnt have a some kinda awkward twist. She has a kid now and is currently with her baby daddy, who I know personally. She says he neglects her, but he is a good father, which is the only reason she is still with him. How do I approach her without scaring her or making it seem like Im trying to house her?

[illriginal]

Who says it's loveless? You have to let go of that self centered-ness once you have a child. All of us have a degree of being self centered, it's natural, it's part of our being. But once you bring a child into the world... you have to forget nearly everything about you, you, you... you now have a new responsibility, a new life in your hands.


Now with that said, I don't see how a child can make a relationship loveless, there's some sort of love if the mother and father are doing what's best for their child and themselves.

If you mean that they had a child by accident because they're horny little infidels, tough shit, you were responsible enough to stick your penis in her or let him penetrate you, then you're responsible enough to have that child and care for it for the rest of your entire lives if you must.

It's becoming clear that people now a days, not all but majority, do not think of the consequences, the possibilities, nor the responsibilities of having sex. It's a lot more than selfish pleasure / hedonism and fun / games.