Rekindling an old flame, Best way to go about it |
Rekindling an old flame, Best way to go about it |
May 10 2009, 08:09 AM
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![]() Ummm... I can't think of anything creative to put here ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 410 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,965 |
I started talking with an old "friend" of mine from high school. I wouldn't be asking for advice from you all if it didnt have a some kinda awkward twist. She has a kid now and is currently with her baby daddy, who I know personally. She says he neglects her, but he is a good father, which is the only reason she is still with him. How do I approach her without scaring her or making it seem like Im trying to house her?
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May 10 2009, 04:51 PM
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I don't know why you'd want to start up a relationship with her. You just recently started talking to her, so how do you know that you have real feelings for her.
If her boyfriend and father of her child is neglecting her (which can mean a lot of different things) then that's something that she will have to figure out how to handle on her own. If she's going to leave him let her leave him because he neglects her not because she wants to have a fling with you. You should back off, especially if the guy is a friend of yours. She's probably not worth the drama and if something did happen you guys probably wouldn't be together for that long anyways. |
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Stuckie Rekindling an old flame May 10 2009, 08:09 AM
DressYourEyelids if she's with someone i would back off. sounds... May 10 2009, 08:26 AM
iGio QUOTE(Stuckie @ May 10 2009, 09:09 AM) I ... May 10 2009, 02:00 PM
gojira let me make it colorful for you
QUOTE(Stuckie ... May 10 2009, 02:40 PM
iGio QUOTE(illriginal @ May 11 2009, 12:13 AM)... May 12 2009, 03:00 PM
illriginal Neglecting her? Ha... once you have a child, my go... May 10 2009, 04:56 PM
hypnotique QUOTE(illriginal @ May 10 2009, 04:56 PM)... May 10 2009, 09:32 PM
karmakiller QUOTE(hypnotique @ May 10 2009, 09:32 PM)... May 10 2009, 10:43 PM
illriginal QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 10 2009, 11:43 PM... May 10 2009, 11:01 PM
karmakiller QUOTE(illriginal @ May 10 2009, 11:01 PM)... May 10 2009, 11:05 PM
illriginal QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 11 2009, 12:05 AM... May 10 2009, 11:13 PM
illriginal Who says it's loveless? You have to let go of ... May 10 2009, 09:56 PM
doughnut QUOTE(illriginal @ May 11 2009, 10:56 AM)... May 25 2009, 06:09 AM
Stuckie Well the kid aint mine, so I dont want her getting... May 25 2009, 04:58 AM![]() ![]() |