Fighting make couple stronger? Options

[shoryuken]

is that true? when we fight/argue alot.. we get stronger and love each other alot..

or

when you fight/argue alot.. you get tire and say peace out..

[illriginal]

No... fighting doesn't help a relationship out.. by any means. Communicating does.

[Smarmosaur]

No... fighting doesn't help a relationship out.. by any means. Communicating does.

arguments come from the lack of communication. as mipadi said, as long as you don't you resort to name-calling or belittling each other, and the arguing is because you're trying to reach a resolution, you're communicating because of the lack of communication. come on, face it, there's no way any couple can sit down calmly and say "let's communicate"...sorry, not gonna happen. but yeah, arguing is completely natural, as long as it's for a valid reason, and you stay on topic and try to reach a resolution.

[illriginal]

arguments come from the lack of communication. as mipadi said, as long as you don't you resort to name-calling or belittling each other, and the arguing is because you're trying to reach a resolution, you're communicating because of the lack of communication. come on, face it, there's no way any couple can sit down calmly and say "let's communicate"...sorry, not gonna happen. but yeah, arguing is completely natural, as long as it's for a valid reason, and you stay on topic and try to reach a resolution.

I'm just gonna put this out there, you can take it or leave it.


I've NEVER, EVER, have gotten into an argument with my family, friends, nor girlfriends in the past. There's was only ONE girl, who happens to be Puerto Rican (go figure), who was completely and utterly immature and always looked for meaningless trouble.

Trust me, 5 weeks of starting that relationship, no matter how hot she was, or how nice her voice was... she was not worth my time. And the sad thing is, she was 20 when I was 18... what an embarrasment.