Fighting make couple stronger? Options

[shoryuken]

is that true? when we fight/argue alot.. we get stronger and love each other alot..

or

when you fight/argue alot.. you get tire and say peace out..

[Smarmosaur]

...that's total crap.

arguing is completely natural. depending on who you are, it could go either way. or sometimes both. i'm not in a relationship, but my best friend is a guy and i love him to death, i'd date him if i could with no doubt. we argue, not a lot, but often. sometimes it's little arguments when we're just stressed, but we give eachother a few hours then apologize and it's good. if you're not strong enough to do that, then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship. sometimes we have mediumish arguments, where we bicker for a while then don't talk until the next day. ONCE we had a tremendously insanely huge argument...bickered all night, etc. we both apologized and moved on, but it definitely made us a little stronger.
however, don't expect to just always move on...you have to work to fix what's wrong. you have to want it and work to keep what you built through the argument. be understanding, etc. if not, then you turn out the other way where you'll hypothetically kick him out of the house every time he says something you don't like.
but yeah. end rant. it just depends on who you are.

[-DressYourEyelid...]

...that's total crap.

arguing is completely natural. depending on who you are, it could go either way. or sometimes both. i'm not in a relationship, but my best friend is a guy and i love him to death, i'd date him if i could with no doubt. we argue, not a lot, but often. sometimes it's little arguments when we're just stressed, but we give eachother a few hours then apologize and it's good. if you're not strong enough to do that, then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship. sometimes we have mediumish arguments, where we bicker for a while then don't talk until the next day. ONCE we had a tremendously insanely huge argument...bickered all night, etc. we both apologized and moved on, but it definitely made us a little stronger.
however, don't expect to just always move on...you have to work to fix what's wrong. you have to want it and work to keep what you built through the argument. be understanding, etc. if not, then you turn out the other way where you'll hypothetically kick him out of the house every time he says something you don't like.
but yeah. end rant. it just depends on who you are.

that's true. i guess we've always avoided fights because we both come from very violent households and could not possible see a benefit of fighting.
thanks from ranting. i think i see the plus now :D