how women f*ck up relationships thread Options

[brooklyneast05]

this thread is for us to talk about all the dumbass things women do in our relationships with them.

i'll start us off.



in case you didn't know, i can't stand how girls get pissed off if you aren't READING THEIR f*ckING MIND

[brooklyneast05]

quoting from rebeccas quote in the how men f*ck up relationships thread. i took the liberty to highlight in red all the ones that women are guilty of doing too much.

Several years ago Pat Love Ed.D. and Sunny Shulkin Ph.D., two Imago trainers and therapists, published a book titled How to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship. Below is part of their list of some behaviors they identify which can, indeed, ruin a relationship:

* Control everything and everyone
* Never take the blame yourself; instead, make your partner wrong
* Make it a habit to spend more money than you have
* Win every fight, even the ones you couldn’t care less about
* Keep score
* Use threat often
* Find your partner’s weak spot and use it against him/her
* When your partner tries to please you, find fault with their efforts
* Hold fast to the belief: “If you loved me you would know what I want”
* Demand your partner remain faithful but refuse to meet his or her sexual needs
* Use silence as a weapon
* Pretend that you don’t hear
* When your partner tries to apologize, bring up more complaints
* Refuse to give information
* When you realize you haven’t given your partner some important info, insist that you did
* Claim to be the only one interested in the relationship
* Never ask for help
* Confide only in friends
* Take it personally when your partner wants time alone
* Discount your partner’s physical complaints
* Give advice where it isn’t welcome
* Never pick up after yourself
* Refuse to seek help for your depression
* Refuse to talk
* Focus on changing your partner
* Focus all your needs on sex
* Take all problems as further proof that the relationship will not work
* Put your friends before your partner
* Keep romantic gestures to a minimum
* Focus on your partner’s faults and deny your own
* Let days go by without a kind word or loving gesture
* Practice verbal abuse
* Do not listen to your partner’s ideas or suggestions
* Ask your partner to share feelings and when s/he does, EXPLODE
* Start conversations when your partner is busy, or better yet, exhausted
* Let disagreements fester
* Say what you think your partner wants to hear, then do as you please