Asians.. Blacks.. the gap??, No offense.. Options

[dpl313]

Before I start let it be said that I'm not trying to be offensive.

For the Asian girls/women on this site has a guy ever called you stuck up or misleading? Just wondering, because I was having this conversation with my cousin, and we talked about characteristics of women of different races. He was saying how Asian women tend to be a little harder to get(relationship wise) and stuck up.

I thought about this for a bit, and I looked back on every experience I've had talking to an Asian girl/woman. Ironically some of the same patterns have happened in most cases. Like at times it'll end up to be they'll be into me slighty. Then it's always some bs excuse as to why they don't want to go any further. It never fails.. The ones I recall most are.. "my parents.. you fill in the blank." Then the one where they go with the other guy who treats them like crap to try to change them.

As my cousin said this.. it really had me thinking would an Asian male/female date a Black male/female, or is it something that wouldn't happen?

I dunno maybe it's because I'm Black, and in my area you don't see Asians and Blacks together. Even when I moved to a few other states I didn't see it either. Then I was thinking how Black people do get stereotyped sometimes by some members of the Asian culture. I had this one incident that sticks out. I was at this Chinese Buffet restaurant, and this Asian teenager kept staring at me like.. What are you doing here?? I guess I'm losing the theme of my point. I'm not looking to be bashed, nor am I looking for someone to say... You're a nice guy.. poor you, etc. I just want the truth.

[hypnotique]

Idk for me Im just attracted to the opposite.

I'm a Latina who loves white guys and Asians cause thats just what floats my boat. I never have been attracted to my own cause 1)they are retarded and uneducated or the way they were raised conflicts with my personality 2) Because its almost like dating my brother or sister. I mean its possible that if you date in the race they could possibly be related to you its probably unlikely but whatever..


Now before certain people jump on my dick for this statement i have been told by numerous people that I know that they do not like dating black women just because of attitude and personality conflicts. For example my best friend told me she has tried dating a few of them and they always either end up really really f*cking bitchy or they come off to be possessive and jealous all the time. As I recall one of her exes had a problem with me because I hugged her (my best friend) a lot and she actually got in my face about it. Could it possibly be a bad series of girls she bumped into? Maybe. But shes not they only I heard to have issues with it even men have told me that cant handle that shit.

At the same time alot of individuals in the D&S circle embrace the "abrasive dominance" if you will a black woman has.

http://femdomstudygroup.blogspot.com/2008/...issive-man.html
According to this nicely done blog/survey the majority of submissive males you will find are white

Fun fact: The only woman I ever truly loved was black...