Asians.. Blacks.. the gap??, No offense.. Options

[dpl313]

Before I start let it be said that I'm not trying to be offensive.

For the Asian girls/women on this site has a guy ever called you stuck up or misleading? Just wondering, because I was having this conversation with my cousin, and we talked about characteristics of women of different races. He was saying how Asian women tend to be a little harder to get(relationship wise) and stuck up.

I thought about this for a bit, and I looked back on every experience I've had talking to an Asian girl/woman. Ironically some of the same patterns have happened in most cases. Like at times it'll end up to be they'll be into me slighty. Then it's always some bs excuse as to why they don't want to go any further. It never fails.. The ones I recall most are.. "my parents.. you fill in the blank." Then the one where they go with the other guy who treats them like crap to try to change them.

As my cousin said this.. it really had me thinking would an Asian male/female date a Black male/female, or is it something that wouldn't happen?

I dunno maybe it's because I'm Black, and in my area you don't see Asians and Blacks together. Even when I moved to a few other states I didn't see it either. Then I was thinking how Black people do get stereotyped sometimes by some members of the Asian culture. I had this one incident that sticks out. I was at this Chinese Buffet restaurant, and this Asian teenager kept staring at me like.. What are you doing here?? I guess I'm losing the theme of my point. I'm not looking to be bashed, nor am I looking for someone to say... You're a nice guy.. poor you, etc. I just want the truth.

[sajae102]

I for one, is biracical and I love ALL races. I was raised in the city and the suburbs and I understand the the relevance of class, and culture..which in my opinion is far more imporant than race. I was wondering what people thought about black women dating white men. Most white men claim they are "open" to dating black women, however; statistics show that this is a rare case. of course, interracial realtionships is nothing new, but; it is more likely a black man and white women in a relationship rather than the other way around.

I love to date outside of my race for the following reasons: open my world to new cultures and backgrounds,etc. Also, the statistics of available black men are frightening. Half of them are in jail, the other have a load of illegiment children, or they are murdered from sensless crime (I'm just stating statisitcs. I know that this is not the case for EVERY black man, so please don't misunderstand me). Even though I date outside of my race, I still feel it has its challenges. What do you think?

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This post has been edited by superstitious: Apr 14 2009, 11:22 AM