Paranoid about Boyfriend's Past? Options

[angel-roh]

Any of you girls who are dating right now...

I have a question.

Do you always ask questions to your boyfriend about their past with their exes?
Like I have a problem of asking about his exes a lot... like.. a lot.
And he tells me that he has memory problems so he can't really remember a lot.

:( And that really bothers me. As if that's his excuse of saying "I don't want to talk about it."

D:

Is paranoid even the right word for this? Like I'm always so curious and concerned??
I mean.. I love him, but why do I have this feeling? -__-;;

He gets so angry with me cause I always ask questions to him about his past with his exes D:
Is it because I had problems with my exes with trusting issues in the past? Is that why I keep asking?
Or maybe because I just want to make sure he didn't do this and that with his exes in the past?

HELPPPPPPP D:

(I hope my sister and my boyfriend and my boyfriend's sister doesn't read this topic, since they are all registered here LOL)

[hypnotique]

And he tells me that he has memory problems so he can't really remember a lot.

God that is the greatest man excuse ever.

Man i wish veritaserum existed.

Yes I do ask a lot of questions about one's past and just like a criminal history it can and will be used against you.

I have a rule to not bother with someone if i come to find they have cheated multiple times no matter what the excuse is.

I also don't bother with people who feel the need to conceal certain things about exes,I mean i don't want you to kiss and tell but i do want a short and simple summary about why the relationship failed so i know what boundaries i cant push with them.