Paranoid about Boyfriend's Past? Options

[angel-roh]

Any of you girls who are dating right now...

I have a question.

Do you always ask questions to your boyfriend about their past with their exes?
Like I have a problem of asking about his exes a lot... like.. a lot.
And he tells me that he has memory problems so he can't really remember a lot.

:( And that really bothers me. As if that's his excuse of saying "I don't want to talk about it."

D:

Is paranoid even the right word for this? Like I'm always so curious and concerned??
I mean.. I love him, but why do I have this feeling? -__-;;

He gets so angry with me cause I always ask questions to him about his past with his exes D:
Is it because I had problems with my exes with trusting issues in the past? Is that why I keep asking?
Or maybe because I just want to make sure he didn't do this and that with his exes in the past?

HELPPPPPPP D:

(I hope my sister and my boyfriend and my boyfriend's sister doesn't read this topic, since they are all registered here LOL)

[Insurmountable]

How long have you two been dating? I mean if not long, then I can see that you asking about his exes would be fine because its just something most people do when they are dating and get it out of the way in the beginning. Now if you two have been together for a while now and you two have talked about the whole exes thing before and your the one with the memory problems that can't remember the answer to some of the old questions then I think you really need to stop. Guys generally don't want to talk about their exes their about whats going on now not then. But if you two have just started dating and your getting to know each other going through the whole "get to know your past" is completely normal so I wouldn't say your paranoid if this is the case.

But if he really doesn't want to talk about it and shoots you down all the time, then make a list of the top priority questions and tell him you know once I ask you these questions and you answer me honestly then I won't ask about your ex's anymore. You have to meet him in the middle somehow.