Paranoid about Boyfriend's Past? |
 Apr 7 2009, 12:07 AM
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 i'm susan  Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029  |
Any of you girls who are dating right now...
I have a question. Do you always ask questions to your boyfriend about their past with their exes? Like I have a problem of asking about his exes a lot... like.. a lot. And he tells me that he has memory problems so he can't really remember a lot. :( And that really bothers me. As if that's his excuse of saying "I don't want to talk about it." D: Is paranoid even the right word for this? Like I'm always so curious and concerned?? I mean.. I love him, but why do I have this feeling? -__-;; He gets so angry with me cause I always ask questions to him about his past with his exes D: Is it because I had problems with my exes with trusting issues in the past? Is that why I keep asking? Or maybe because I just want to make sure he didn't do this and that with his exes in the past? HELPPPPPPP D: (I hope my sister and my boyfriend and my boyfriend's sister doesn't read this topic, since they are all registered here LOL) |
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Apr 7 2009, 03:19 AM
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There's two sides to this issue: he could really be having memory problems, or he doesn't want you to find things out about him. I find the second one more probable. Everyone has pasts in relationships and you shouldn't base too much judgement on someone off their past, unless you are seeing signs that they are the same way (in a bad way) in their current state.
You are not paranoid, it's best to know atleast a little bit (if not all) about your partner and what they are like; but in this situation, it seems like he isn't too proud of something that happened, or he really must have disliked whatever happened. You shouldn't force the issue too much, but ask here and there. It's not cool of him to get mad at you for just asking. You have a right to know certain things; you're his girlfriend. I say, give it time. If he gets more shady about his past and you get more concerned, it might be a good idea to consider how much trust you both have in this relationship if you can't even talk about things like this. |
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angel-roh Paranoid about Boyfriend's Past? Apr 7 2009, 12:07 AM
jcp i dont think u are paronoid. i can see y he doesnt... Apr 7 2009, 12:22 AM angel-roh Like he told me other reasons he forgot is cause h... Apr 7 2009, 12:31 AM doughnut he doesnt want to think about the past and just li... Apr 7 2009, 08:31 AM WarMachine If women were to judge me on my past in regards to... Apr 7 2009, 08:56 AM Insurmountable How long have you two been dating? I mean if not l... Apr 7 2009, 09:11 AM paozuu You shouldn't judge someone from their past. I... Apr 7 2009, 03:55 PM PrinceGonnaChokeaBEECH any gurlz u askk...
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<<<... Apr 7 2009, 05:19 PM hypnotique QUOTEAnd he tells me that he has memory problems s... Apr 8 2009, 07:39 PM Tomates Ive asked my boyfriend about his past exes...he wo... Apr 8 2009, 08:48 PM
BOSS QUOTE(Tomates @ Apr 8 2009, 06:48 PM) Ive... Apr 8 2009, 10:09 PM liquidice its the past, let it go.
you can't change what... Apr 8 2009, 09:01 PM ArjunaCapulong dunno but 50 cent sez QUOTE(50 Cent)don't indu... Apr 8 2009, 09:05 PM Tomates idk for me wanting to find out became more of a cu... Apr 8 2009, 09:13 PM Uso I Think you should wait a while, then ask him agai... Apr 9 2009, 07:19 PM PrinceGonnaChokeaBEECH dis thrad funni.. HAHHAAH.. sum ill advvicc lol Apr 9 2009, 07:29 PM slipper i've learned to not ask too much about ex... Apr 10 2009, 07:35 PM |
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