should i believe him?, HELP? Options

[s1cktypeS]

last night me and my bf went to speedzone with a couple of his buddies. he was goin on this one ride so he told me to hold his cellphone. once he was in line, i sat down with his homies. then i was thinkin if there's anything happenin with him and his co worker. cuz i know he's all being nice and shit to her to get on her good side so she can put in a good word with her dad about maybe hiring him to work at the auto center. so once i got in his phone, all i saw was all this shit like "oh i'd feel better if we were cuddling." or "oh can i come over sometime?" i got so mad that i excused myself from his friends and walked over to where he was. i showed him his fone and i was like "you wanna tell me wtf this is?" and he was juz like i'll tell you later. and i was mad and i raised my voice a lil bit and pulled him by his sweater. i was like "NO! I'D LIKE AN EXPLANATION NOW!"

so he got out of the line and we talked
he was all like oh that's nothing
we're juz joking around we're juz friends
i was like i know how you are
and you don't flirt
he's all i'm like that with all the girls
and he corrected himself well maybe not
and i raised my voice again
i was like "NO UR NOT! UR ONLY LIKE THAT WITH HER!"
and he's like that doesn't mean anything
all i can say was "thats total bullshit right there"

i didn't get to say this to him last night cuz his friends where there
and like he takes more time talkin to her than me
he takes the time to call her to say goodnite and goodmorning
and he barely talks to me

idk what to believe
should i believe him when he said that it doesn't mean anything?
what do you guys think?

[Maccabee]

ummm...I think you shouldnt take it to seriously. But he is flirting with her. He prob just wanted to flirt with a girl.

[Tomates]

ummm...I think you shouldnt take it to seriously. But he is flirting with her. He prob just wanted to flirt with a girl.

on the contrary i think it should be. Ive been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and if i found out he was saying things like that to another girl i would question him and ask him what the world he is doing.
If every guy or girl decided not to talk to their beau's with situations like that then it would be just a whole cheat fest out there.

I would talk to him and tell him that this is bothering you and politely tell him to stop. If he does it again tell him and briefly warn him that there will be consequences of doing it a third time. If it doesn't stop then it would probably be best to cut it off. You should be happy in a relationship, not worried and sad.

[gojira]

I would talk to him and tell him that this is bothering you and politely tell him to stop. If he does it again tell him and briefly warn him that there will be consequences of doing it a third time. If it doesn't stop then it would probably be best to cut it off. You should be happy in a relationship, not worried and sad.

i can't believe i didn't catch this.